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male
age
30-35,
*mit thakur
writes:It will sound a little wierd. I am a little possesive by nature. I have a huge crush on a girl. She is my junior.she is realy open and friendly with everyone. We have spent quality time together. I make her laugh a lot and she is realy happy around me. Problem is no matter how hard i try she doesnt seem to be attracted towards me. She even said once that she is underage to be in any relation. Ok i get that.My question is then why she always spend her time with other boys specialy seniors. Even boys of my class are her friends. She is open with them.i dont know why she isnt open with me like other boys. She is always comfortable around me. Yet still she never cals me .even on facebook she likes other boys photos but not mine. Its me who contact her always. My biggest fear is her hooking with any of my male friends.Why is this? What am i doing wrong?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (17 February 2013):
What are you doing wrong? You're getting hung up on a girl that doesn't like you.
You can't make someone like you, all you can do is be the best "you" that you can be. If that's not enough, then find someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): What are you doing lusting after an underage girl at your age? By what extent is she underage? Underage in many countries is anything up to the age of 16, but most girls under 16 will have had some kind of experience with a relationship. If she is underage and says she's too young for a relationship, exactly how old is she, 12-13?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 HI
Maybe she knows you are possessive by nature , and coming across to eager, this can be a massive turn off for anyone to be honest. Who she decides to date really is not your desicion to make. Yes it will be hard for you if it's a freind of yours but all you can do is move on and find a girl who will like everything about you.
If you really want to be with her you have to learn to back off a bit, don't go overboard with always being the one to get in touch. If she likes you she will want to get in touch with you. so you can either wait and hope she will come around, or you can do what I suggested and that's move on. that's all you CAN do i'm afraid.
Mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): It sounds like you have been open with her, but for some reason you are not getting the type of attention you want from her. I know your interest in her is strong and if it was meant to be, it will be. The important thing is that you let her know that you are interested in her more than as a friend, have you done that or have you been sending her mixed signals? If you are uncomfortable or not getting the right vibe from her to tell her of your interest, then just be friends for now and see what happens. If you told her that you're interested in her (more than just friends),and if she doesn't respond to that, don't worry about it too much; there will be other girls coming into your life who will treat you the way you want to be treated. From the many years of dating and relationships I have been through, one thing has become very obvious is that if someone is really interested in you, you will know it, and you shouldn't have to try so hard to get their attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): She is not interested in you as a boyfriend, only a friend. She is acting the same way with other guys because she is a friendly person, nothing more. I know it's hard but no matter how much you want someone to return your feelings, sometimes they don't. I think you should start spending time with other girls as well as this one to see if you can meet someone who is interested in you in a romantic way.
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