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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello dear aunts and uncles. Unfortunately, like most of us here, I've made a huge mistake.There's this freshman (I'm a sophomore) girl in my High School that I think it pretty. I was looking at her instagram profile and then checked out one of her friends profiles and this friend had some "love calculator" link on her profile so I checked it out just for fun...So, first you type in your full name and then "Your top 3 crushes", so i typed in 2 girls in my school that I think is pretty, and then of course the freshman girl's name..This "love calculator" is apparently a prank. It sends an e-mail to the person who provided the link with your name and the 3 peoples names you wrote down.I know it was really really stupid and I messed up big time and need help. Do I just ignore it? Do I send this girl who indirectly pranked me a facebook message in a couple of days saying it was some "friend" that played a joke on me?Plesae help and thank you in advance.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (18 February 2013):
Iamheretohelpyou: I know that. He seems to be under the opinion that they'll tell her so I was addressing that possibility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): Totally play it off like you knew it was a prank the whole time.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (17 February 2013):
Yes, that's a little embarrassing, but not for any good reason. Do something similar to what youwish suggested.
You should learn this lesson asap: have the confidence to admit your mistakes and not hide from them. People appreciate it.
Also, you need to turn that crush into something more. Waiting doesn't work. Even if you're nervous about asking her out, just do it. It gets easier every time.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (17 February 2013):
 Oh my! You're looking at this like it's a "huge mistake", when in reality, you could turn it into a huge opportunity if you have the courage to do so!
You're feeling embarrassed, which is absolutely normal and I would too. But if you have some courage, you could go to her, apologize for the email, tell her you're embarrassed by the prank and THEN....tell her she's actually at the top of your list and tell her you're interested in her.
Imagine turning an embarrassment into an opportunity to get to know her. My question is....do you have the guts?? I'm cheering you on, buddy! Take the shot! The net is open!
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