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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He's tried to do the right thing but doesn't want her to be hurt more than necessary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - 4 years ago when I was 18 I met this guy when we started working together, he was 26 at the time. Our job requires us to work away from home; so we spent quite a lot of time together and became close straight away even though he was in a ...

I don't know if I could ever trust again and build the relationship up, which seems like double standards based on my past behavior.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - I'm not quite sure where to start with all of this, so here goes; I've been in a relationship with my partner for 13 years now, and I love her very much, we have three young kids together. About four years ago I discovered that my partner had t...

What gives? I have this urge to cheat ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for close to a year about, and I've always felt, or rather, thought about sleeping with other people, but I guess it's normal to entertain the idea even if you're in a relationship, so long as you don't act on it. ...

My boyfriend is planning a weekend away with a female friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Id like some honest advice from men and women to see if I am just being over jealous or if anyone else would feel the same as me. My boyfriend of a year has a 4 year old girl from a previous relationship. He has lots of female friends which I ...

Am I emotionally cheating by looking at another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with this wonderful guy for 4 months,he loves me,treats me right and takes good care of me! But lately I'v been noticing this other guy who I see around sometimes I found him really cute but I would never approach...

Ex blew his chances. Whats the next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, due to him being a serial cheat. We had been together for 5 months, having a one month break up in the middle. We broke up due to him both sleeping with someone else and sending pictures and flirting...

My ex cheated on me and dumped me, he is now in a relationship and I am alone. How can I get over our break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on at Christmas time, lied about it, dumped me when I found out, still denied it afterwards but I have since found out that he is still with the girl he cheated on me with. I so angry that I was the one treated like crap but...

Would it be an insult to get my wife an anniversary card after I cheated on her with a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - I admitted to my wife just after Christmas that I'd cheated on her with a prostitute. I regret my behaviour very much and have no intention of ever repeating it. My wife is trying to forgive me and we're still together, but she doesn't wear her ...

My husband's semen changed consistency. Does this mean he's cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My husband has always had very thick, gloopy semen. He lost interest in sex a year ago. A full physical and blood workup proved him to be healthy. He started taking Cialis. We had sex 1 time since he began the Cialis , 1 month ago. His semen was ...

What is the problem with me dating two or three ladies at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - I would like to know from fellow Cupid reader As a man is there any problem when I get married to two or three wife, what about dating two or three ladies is there any problem. Please help, I need to understand this better ...

My fiancé is still in touch with his ex and I'm concerned about his feelings for her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - So I know snooping etc and everything is not a good thing and I guess I wouldn't normally but the opportunity arose as my other half left his email open and I couldn't help it......my fiance had dogs with his ex wife and as far I knew they still ...

Dirty talk and sexy photos with another man - should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have a bf for past 4 yrs. its a long distance relationship. I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf. Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i....

Need Advice to get my best male friend back!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I need help, I'm confused and hurt! I'm a 29 year old female with two kids that just now file for a divorce, before our divorce I always call my childhood friend (married man now) for advice cause he's always good at that, he's the type of friend y...

I cheated with my ex. How do I make it up to my b/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend yesterday with one of my ex. I love my current boyfriend and i couldn't get away with it. I know it sounds bitchy and i know cheating is voluntary and all that shit, but i truely feel guilty and regretted. I wanna make up ...

After everything do we still have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - i am in a relationship with my guy for the last 5 years. for the most part sadly, it has been an LDR. since 2012, we have been arguing and fighting over petty issues because of communication gap .... but this is true that we have been madly inlov...

Considered cheating?? Deserve another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - First and foremost, I please ask you not to judge. I am totally aware snooping is unacceptable, however, when one feels that something is going on... there is sometimes no other option. And please bear with me, the conversation/timeline of events is ...

He sends texts that he'd like to cheat but then doesn't follow through. I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Hi, wonder if anyone has any thoughts on this. A guy started texting me in May after having done some work at my home. The texts became intimate quite quickly. A few evenings of sexy texts during May then he saiid he couldn't come to house t...

MY girlfriend lied to me, we broke up and now everything is a mess

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

25 July 2013 (M) - Hi in need of help I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years. 10 days ago I had found out she had been lying to me. She had been going out with another guy and hiding it from me. It started out one day when I logged into Fac...

Is my LDR b/f seeing a girl behind on my back who he's befriended from facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - So Im in a long distance situation with my boyfriend/ex. We're together but not. It's hard to explain. Anyway, I'm a pretty jealous person and noticed that he befriended a girl on Facebook who lives out of state about 2 months ago. She befriended ...

Can I get an hpv virus and pass it off to my wife if I have never had sex with anyone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - we were married in 75, and in 82 my wife had a rapid weight loss issue that prompted her to go to her dr. he found beginning stages of cancer on her cervix and had to remove them. she never mentioned how she got it but now we know about hpv. is ...

This girl keeps flirting with my boyfriend! What do I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - This girl keeps flirting and talking about sexual things with my boyfriend and I honestly can't handle it anymore. I guess he just sees her as being friendly/funny but it really hurts me that she keeps doing it. I'm honestly scared that he'll...

How to deal with this in front of the kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 20 years (we were both VERY young), and married for 14 years. He is a police officer and I recently found out that he is cheating on me with a female paramedic. The divorce is in process - but how do I remain civil ...

I want his girlfriend to know he's been cheating on her with me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - So I've been talking/hooking up with this guy and he has a girlfriend of a few years... I don't want to change my situation with him yet but I do want her to know what he's doing. She seems like a really good (virginal) girl... How could I do this ...

If you have cheated before, are you not worthy of any future relationships? Are cheaters really 'red flags'?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I have read so many questions and responses on DC. The most common response or feedback is IF HE OR SHE HAS CHEATED ON HIS/HER GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND OR WIFE/HUSBAND BEFORE, YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH HIM/HER BECAUSE HE/SHE WOULD DO THE SAME TO YOU! ...

My husband says he's totally against cheating but I've found out that he made a pass at my mum. During our marriage he has also slept with a 17-y.o.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - hi, my husband and I have been together for 19yrs now, we have two children 3yr and 6yr. my husband has always talked about his strong morals especially over affairs he has said that even a kiss is a passionate moment and in his views is as good ...

Can you love someone and still cheat on them for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - I have been in a true heart dilemma for the past year. It all started when I went back to work after my maternity leave, I was 34 at the time. I was married at the time going through a separation. I found my work to be a relief from the stress a...

Should I break up with my baby daddy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4172 days ago

20 July 2013 (?) - Ok well ive been with this man for 2 years and i have a child with him. Our relationship has been terrible for the last year. I cheated on him. I really do regret it. I wanna tell him but the thing is it was with his brother. It was a mistake but ...

He's living with his mistress and driving her SUV only 2 weeks of leaving our home.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - I had my husband of 15 years to move out of our home because I discovered more evidence that he's having an affair. He moved out, but refuses to talk to me about anything. He's been doing this every time I try to talk to him. The isolation from our ...

My married friend is getting more aggressive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - I am a single mom and work as a nurse. I have met a physician I really like only to find out he is married. Well, I don't do married but agreed that we can be friends and nothing more. He has made it clear that he wants more but he doesn't want ...

Is he really making sense or am I downright stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Ok so my Ex and i spoke about the problems we had, we also had sex he wants to take baby steps in getting back together i don't know why am starting to feel like its a game he's playing because he is still communicating with the girl that he ...

Should I carry on until he leaves and let it die out or do I tell him it's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, I think I'm in deep with this one. Someone I met through work recently started talking to me a lot more than they used to. We had a flirty relationship at work but he was like it with everyone so no one took it too seriously...

Why would my lover ask his wife to pick me up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - I have a really strange question to ask. Iv'e been involved with a married man for over 8yrs.and please i'm not here asking for comments regarding the long term affair.but today when i texted him and said i will not be home till later this afternoo...

Tricks and twists from my best friend? Do I believe him or the new guy? I'm traumatized and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Hey there! I don't know how to go about it.. it's really a messed up relationship.. :/ So, i have a really good friend rather my best friend who loves me a lot..he still does but i no longer wanna date him because he has got some serious issues w...

I have guilty feelings from this kiss, I need opinions on the cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Hi all, I really need opinions and views on this as I find it hard to speak to people as I don't want my friends to judge me. I cheated on my boyfriends of 2 years (still together now) when we had been going out for just 2 months. It was heavil...

Not sure I can trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4176 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I'm not sure I can trust my boyfriend. I discovered that, the very night we began dating, he had been calling and messaging his ex-girlfriends, asking them to come over. He told one of them "I'd rather not stop seeing you." Nothing has happened ...

If you were me, would you take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up recently. The relationship was at tipping point and although we loved each other (and still do) very much and had a great connection and friendship, it was time that we either did something about it, or brake ...

Best friend and boyfriend .... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and my best friend have been sleeping together for at least 5 months but I can't find the courage to leave him. We share a 18 week old daughter, and we have just got our first mortgage in the past year. I'm in two minds about whether to ...

Caught my girlfriend cheating. She doesn't know that I know. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

14 July 2013 (M) - Please, please help?? My world has been turned upside down. I have been with this woman for just over a year. I fell in love with her very quickly. I've never met anyone like her. I've loved before but never like this. Anyway, about 6 mont...

I always cheat on my wife, how can I stop this bad behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 July 2013 (M) - dear cupid I am a male aged 35, I am married with 2 kids with my wife, and I has another dougther with my Ex, of which we parted ways 12 years back. I married my wife 9 years back. Here is my problem. I has never be faithful in my marriage, I ...

Can a married man love his wife and mistress at the same time?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Can a married man love his wife and mistress at the same time?...

I really don't want to get into this relationship because we are both married but my heart tells me otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Hello. Am having strong love feelings for my workmate. He is married with four children and according to what he always says he loves his wife and no woman can replace her although he can be available to any woman for fun without his wife knowing...

I don`t want to cheat but I`d like some affection from my friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Ok heres the dilema, I'm married and have 2 kids. Years ago I met a guy who totally blew my world away, we only saw each other for a short time and were never intimate sexually. I had to break it off because my ex wanted me back in my life and ...

Should I be giving up my best friend just because I have feelings for him? He said he's happy to stop having sex, but doesn't wanna lose me as a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - I have fallen for someone I can't have, but I knew that when we started and now its too late. I met this guy about 9 months ago, we clicked immediately, he had a gf but decided to sleep with me.. I knew it was wrong but he said it was just a bit of...

Why would he throw away 7 years and me for that mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - I'm hoping for someone to enlighten me on why my ex fiancé would dump me and marry someone who resembles his ex wife. My ex was married to an alcoholic like himself for 14 yrs. It was a very abusive marriage to say the least. When we met he was ...

Why do I still get jealous if I don't love her anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Long story, so please bear with me! I met this girl, she's 26, I'm 31, and I was head over heels for her. I knew she was gay, but she was still deep in the closet when we met. We started going out but she treated me like sh*t. She would always k...

Swinging gone terribly wrong, am I stupid for staying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - I am a 41 year old married woman for 16 years. I got my husband into swinging then I began an longtime affair for over 10 years. I do not want to swing anymore. I just recently stopped my affair within the last year, my husband is still a swinger ...

I'm married and friend now wants to have sex. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - Hi I am actually from Pakistan but now living in Australia with my husband and 4 years old son.My husband works and I am a housewife.We r really a happy small family.Here I met with a guy when I first came.I lost my way and my husband was not with ...

What the heck happened? Why am I fantasizing about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - I have been engaged for two months and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and am in the middle of planning a wedding. I love him very much. I have never thought about cheating but something crazy happened. I was at a work travel recently for 4 ...

Just discovered my live-in boyfriend of two years is checking out match.com profiles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - I am not sure how to react to all of this. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for 2 years. We have lived together for over a year now. He has been a great guy and I never suspected he would cheat on me or betray me. I was married for 13 years ...

He has funny marks on his face that he says came from playing basketball. Is he cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - So here is my story; In the beginning of June my boyfriend broke his phone, he has been jobless and his parents have kicked him out quite a few times, and also his car broke down. So basically we haven't really talked, and when we do its every other ...