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writes:Hey there! I don't know how to go about it.. it's really a messed up relationship.. :/So, i have a really good friend rather my best friend who loves me a lot..he still does but i no longer wanna date him because he has got some serious issues which i tried resolving for a while.. but it seems i am driving in a lane where there is no entry for cars like me. I was dating my best friend though i just liked him, never loved him. However, he broke my heart, went on checking out other girls in front of me.. so i decided not to date him anymore if he doesnt respect me.Thouh we still talk. Then, i met this another charming guy who seept me off my feet. I fell in love with him this time. He too said that he loved me. This guy knew my best friend but before me dating him..he hardly used to talk to my bestie. Now when my bestie came yo lnow about this relation he tortured me each day. I still respected him. My bestie told me that this another guy is cheating on me..i didnt trust. Later, i came to know he used to show my conversation to his friends and was planning to use me physically. So i made a plan invluding my best friend nd we caught him red handed.. we also recorded his voice and it was confirmed he was cheating on me. But, this had another twist this guy whom i dated after my bestie..came to me and said that my best friend asked him to cheat me..fuck me up.. and this also came true when i asked my bestie. This new guy is really sorry for making me feel so because now he says my best friend cheated him too to remain in my good books and make him a bad boy in front of me. I am now really confused who is cheating on me or whonis playing what kinda game?? I dont know whom to trust now. I am broken. :( plz plz help me guys what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2013): How much has to happen to you before you realize that you are supposed to kick both of those guys to the curb? You're getting a reputation for being a pushover.
These guys know that they can get over on you, and you'll still keep them as friends. When people repeatedly hurt you, it's okay to forgive them; but you have to remove them from your life, so they can't do you anymore harm.
You seem to enjoy the drama. So you go back for more.
If you want to find a guy who cares for you, you have to clean house first. Any new man you invite into your life, will be pulled into this web of nonsense. You obviously date too close your usual hangouts.
That increases your chances of running into guys who know each other. You really need to expand your circle of friends, and include some reliable female allies. Other women will watch your back, and tell you when you're not thinking straight. Just keep all people out of your personal business, regardless of gender.
Those guys are not your friends. They don't think you;re very smart. If you enjoy games like spying on friends and trapping people; then I guess you're all cut out for each other.
If you want to stop being traumatized, change your hangouts,
and make some new friends. Get rid of those two jerks first!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2013): How much has to happen to you before you realize that you are supposed to kick both of those guys to the curb? You're getting a reputation for being a pushover.
These guys know that they can get over on you, and you'll still keep them as friends. When people repeatedly hurt you, it's okay to forgive them; but you have to remove them from your life, so they can't do you anymore harm. You seem to enjoy the drama. So you go back for more.
If you want to find a guy who cares for you, you have to clean house first. Any new man you come in contact with, will be pulled into this web of nonsense. You obviously date too close your usual hangouts.
That increases your chances of running into guys who know each other. You really need to expand your circle of friends, and include some reliable female allies.
Those guys are not your friends. They don't think you are very smart. If you enjoy games like spying on friends and trapping people; then I guess you're all cut out for each other.
If you want to stop being traumatized, change your hangouts,
and make some new friends. Get rid of those two jerks first!
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