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writes: Ok well ive been with this man for 2 years and i have a child with him. Our relationship has been terrible for the last year. I cheated on him. I really do regret it. I wanna tell him but the thing is it was with his brother. It was a mistake but ive been still talking to him. The thing that i wanna ask about though is honestly it seems like hes more interested in the well being of me and my child then his brother. It was just sex at first but then emotional ties...the thing is i dont want to really start to like him... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2013): "Should I break up with my baby daddy?"No, your baby daddy should break up with you. He can't break up with his brother because they're related by blood for life but he can easily discard the latest legal stranger with whom he's been most recently sleeping, especially when she is not only cheating on him with his brother but also rationalizing her infidelity. If your baby uncle were truly interested in his nephew/niece's well-being, then he wouldn't have had relations with his/her mother behind his/her father's back. He wanted to get laid and you made yourself available, and the "emotional ties" that you think you've developed are probably just lines he's feeding you to keep you putting out for him. If you were truly interested in your child's best interests, you wouldn't be tearing up his/her's father's family with your selfishness and irresponsibility. You need to put your kid first before your love life, and stop making his/her father's life miserable twice over.
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