New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (13), 2 (12), 3 (9), 4 (9), 5 (8), 6 (13), 7 (5), 8 (6), 9 (10), 10 (7),
11 (12), 12 (14), 13 (13), 14 (11), 15 (8), 16 (10), 17 (11), 18 (10), 19 (7), 20 (7),
21 (9), 22 (5), 23 (6), 24 (4), 25 (13), 26 (9), 27 (10), 28 (8), 29 (9), 30 (8),

Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm afraid I'll cheat on my younger boyfriend and give my virginity to an older guy, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I know I'm very young, but please understand that these days everything varies from person to person, for example I know people barely a year older than me that have actually been together with someone for a few years, others that just sleep around ...

I don't think I can leave her until there is actual proof she has cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a confusing lady for 6 months now and I believe she is not only cheating on me but has the belief system in place to continually do so but I have no proof. She is part of a sect headed by a guy called isaac ...

Should I listen to what he has to say after he has cheated on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi uncles and aunts! Wel, i'm just gona get on it. Yesterday my bf confessed to have been cheating on me... I'm so confused, angry and sad, i feel betrayed and lied to.. I don't knw what to do, i thought i needed to speak to someone. He confes...

Can I trust my girlfriend again after she left me for another man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - do i trust my girlfriend again my girlfriend left me for another guy, she slept with him , then a week later told me she had made a big mistake...she was working away with him, so it took her 5 months to finish her contract and return to me..in t...

Did they do it or not? Who do you think is lying? Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi there! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years although the last 2 years were spent being away from each other since he's now residing in the UK. He came home for vacation last January and a month after he left, I found out I was ...

Should I pursue this relationship with my online boyfriend or leave him be because of my earlier fears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi... about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as w...

My Husband's ex wont go away!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Ive been with my husband for about 3 years. Ever since we got together his ex girlfriend had been in the picture. he had told me he blocked her from everything from emails to AIM's. Lat friday we were looking for house (well he was) and he kept ...

I can watch his every move on the computer and its killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I need some serious advice...I got into a serious relationship last year and then was cheated on and really hurt, and damaged...somewhere in the process of breaking up and then getting back together I installed keylogging software onto my his ...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me... while on the phone with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I think my GF is cheating on me. I travel for work and I called her the other night and was really horny so we had phone sex. It just seemed too real. We were fantasizing about having sex and she starts getting into it a bit, but as time progr...

If they cheat once, will they always cheat again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My former best friend got out of a terrible divorce. Then he got together with another woman after the divorce who cheated on him with several people. He found out by catching her in bed with a guy from work. She slept around with other people from ...

Husband says he loves me too much to cheat but signs are pointing otherwise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair with someone he works with. I caught them chating on facebook and told him I did not like it and he said he would stop. The other day he told me he had to work late and his phone was in his locker but when I ...

My boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - please help im 19 years old. my boyfriend{of 2 years} and i agreed that we would take a break because he was going to jail.. when he was in jail we talked once a week..and both agreed that when he was out we would get back together. he got out of ...

Should I tell her that her Fiance is a cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok, here's the problem, my boyfriends' best friend is a cheat. He's been dating this girl for 4 years and they've recently got engaged. Thing is everyone in our social group knows that this guy has cheated on his now fiance in the last 4 years. He's ...

We can't seem to let go of each other even tho he is married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - HI ,some advice please but no moral judgments thanks. I have been in a relationship with a married man for what seems like forever about 8yrs and before that about 3yrs same man we had a period where we had no contact because i had moved away. W...

I am unable to forget my flirtation with my former boss, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys I need someone there to tell me whether I am doing the correct thing or not with regard to my extra marital flirtation? I fell for the extraordinary knowledge of my boss in each and everything be it his own field or something elso and ...

I just don't know how to walk away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - well, my Bf keep cheating, dating chatting on facebook. he denied that we are actually together once. i walked out and i came back to him.it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time. He hurts me badly, he doesn't care, he chat with ...

Wondering whether to be honest about 'cheating' before he moves in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - i need advice...bad! i have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have been through alot together and still have remained in a relationship. things were going to so well but then i kissed another girl. you see i am bi. but this isn...

I cheated on my boyfriend and now I am pregnant but don't know who is father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and now I am pregnant and I don't know whose is it. I am 18 and live with my boyfriend who is 27 for 1 year, we were having trouble in our relationship and sometimes when he got angry he would slap me if we argue which w...

Been in this relationship for six years and have a yen for a no-strings fling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I think about having sex with another man but ive been in a relationship for almost 6 years is that normal? Its not like I don't love my Husband I just want to feel new dick with no strings....

Are his actions justified by my cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi, so ive been seeing this guy for a few months now and about a month ago i cheated on him with my ex. i felt so bad afterwards and expected it to be over but he didnt leave me. hes 19 and im 16 btw. then.... last weekend i did it again. i ...

I want to hook up with my long-distance friend, but we're both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend... but i am in love with another guy who lives across the country from me who also has a girlfriend. Well i am heading to where he lives to see my family and him. He is one of my best friends in the whole world. And i was ...

First he had an emotional affair, and now he just doesn't seem interested in me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I just feel like venting some feelings and hope you can give me some advice. Tonight I was rejected by the man in my life, yet again. Recently, I discovered he was having an emotional affair with another girl for just under a yea...

How do I get over these dreams of my ex? What do they mean and how can I stop them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 1.75 years a month ago. To be honest, I think we still loved each other (at least I still loved him), but I wasn't really a priority to him anymore. I was always left in the dust, and I don't think he was really ready for a ...

I just found out my partner cheated and has another kid! How can I get over this? It's tearing me apart.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My partner of 12yrs had an affair 5yrs ago which resulted in a child. I only found out about this when the child was 3. His family and friends all knew about it but he forced them to keep quiet as he didnt want to hurt me. Well it has hurt me even ...

Does he love me if he feels the need to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 4 years, until about 2 months ago. We broke up due to mutual decisions, which we both realise now are trivial compared to how much we love each other and want to be together. While we were broken up, I slept with ...

My boyfriend went to a different state to visit another girl, is she just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - So i've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've had our share of the roller coaster. We broke up for 3 months because of him talking to other girls and hiding it from me. But we both realized that we still love each other and ...

How do I get over my want of a threesome?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend. She does not want to. i also like looking at porn and chatting on the net and understandably this upsets her. she says the threesome(watching porn ...

Bf cheated in the past and all I can think about is him doing it again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months... i knew him for year before though, and i knew him as a cheater... when we first started dating he cheated on me twice... now that months has passed by i thought i can forget but i cant... i keep thinking ...

Yearning for something else, and cheating to look for it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am in a bit of a quandry and I hope to get some advice or at least some insight. I've been married to a really wonderful man for the past 7 years and we've been together for a total of 13 years. We have no children. We've been through a lot of...

Ladies, what could be causing this discharge? Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - iis white or yellow vaginal dicharge normal? does it happen often? what r its causes? i ask because my gf has cheated before and has been acting and doing "funny" things again lately....

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out ...

How do I get his old feelings back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, So i was feeling disconnected and unappreciated by my bf. Attempted to talk to him about it but he was convinced I was "overreacting" ..one thing led to another, I ended up hanging out with one of his on again off again acquaint...

Am I just a game to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Help!! This is alittle confussing and may be long..Sorry..I am a married women of about 19 years and have kids. A couple of years ago a old friend of mine came home for and we ran into each other. We exchanged numbers and then things started t...

Mate denies cheating but phone number of someone keeps popping up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - If you are in a relationship with someone who has cheated on you in the past and you come across a number in their phone, and when you talk to the person that the number belongs to and they tell you they have been having a sexual relationship with ...

My older g/f has men friends she likes to spend time with and it bothers me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I am 35 yo, and my gf is 42...i know big age difference..but we love eachother...I just can't escape the feeling that she is cheating though. She lives 2 hours away and we see eachother three to four days a week. I will catch her getting text ...

She doesn't know I'm married after 1 year relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I live in Shanghai and have been in a good relationship with a 28 year old Chinese girl for almost a year, I am 37 years old. She is a very sweet girl and I feel she truly loves me. She is traditional and wants to get married soo...

Does my girlfriend have the hots for our room mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - over the past months my girlfriend has changed, she doesnt desire sex with me, and i feel like our room mate is the reason why. She claims to hate him but, find them glaring at each other, getting each others attention. I have noticed her ...

B/f of 9 years cheated, broke up & now wants to be friends. Could it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for 9 years and he told me he had an affair last month,i forgave him but he wants a trial seperation as he no longer loves me,than he wants to see me as a friend and take it from there,could that work,could he ever love ...

I'm falling for my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have two kids we have been falling out for 2 or 3 years. i met his friend 7 years ago to and instantly fell head over heels. then him and my boyfriend got into it and quit talking for a long time. they ...

How can I catch my wife out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - i am in uk. my wife living in her mothers home in india along with her brother. i am suspecting she is doing sex with her own brother while i am doing phonesex with her. how can i caught her please help me....

I've not known him long and I don't think I can trust him, but I'm 7 weeks pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - well, in a bit of a mess met this guy not known him long, he said he wanted our own place which we got and wanted a baby, which has now happened.. im now 7 weeks pregnant and he does not want to know, he has 2 children with his previous and has ...

My boyfriend has cheated on me and told me he does not love me anymore, but he will stay with me and pretend he has feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - What do you do when your bf of over a year tells you even when he doesn't love you anymore, he'll keep you and lie that he still has feelings for you. Later on you find out that he's cheated on you with a girl from his university. ...

Confused on whether I made a mistake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 in a half yrs.. When I found out that he had cheated.. I confronted him and he had said yes he did.. I ask him why he didn't tell me and he said beacuse he knew I was going to leave him... Then he told me he knew he had ...

I feel guilty about what I did.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i am in a committed relation for 4 yrs and also have a friend since then, though never so close in past, now we used to meet a bit more often but things were very clear about our friendship. lately i got a little physically involved with my friend, ...

I stay with him even though he's cheated on me and hit me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - ive been with this guy for 11 months now and i feel really attached to him but ive realized that im in an abusive relationship i know its wrong and evreytime i break up its like im forced to go back because he litterally calls me more than 50 times ...

What should I do to keep myself occupied while he is away? I'm determined to make it work this time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Now, I won't lie to you, this is a very peculiar relationship predicament I find myself in. And it's as painful as it is unusual. I first saw this man several years ago, when I was very young indeed. And he was, well, not very young. I watched him ...

I really want to start something with her but scared to make a move just in case she thinks I'm insane or causes trouble with her boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - hello, i have a major problem; having left main school 2 years ago obviously there are some people that i have not seen for a while. randomly the other day my old friend asked me if i was up for going round to her house to keep her company, so obvio...

Is she just using me to help get her marriage back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I have being have a relationship with a married woman is is a work colleague. Im single had have been for about four years, having come out of a 18 year relationship.She was having problems with her married life and later admitted they were not ...

He keeps receiving pictures of semi-naked girls and texting them but claims it is only "like porn"! Should I forgive him or will it happen again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. After 3 months of going out i found pictures of other girls on his phone with no top on they had sent him. I also found very forward texting to one girl in particular who he was speaking to on msn , Sh...

Does it sound like he could be falling for me too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I guess I'll start from the beginning. My friends and I were sitting in the lunch room when the art teacher came over and started chatting. I'd never had him before, so I wasn't saying much. But he turned to me unexpectedly and said "Are you taking ...