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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he ...

I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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30 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now. We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ yea...

I'm having a hard time understanding his intentions....should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Im having a hard time understanding his intentions This guy I had a past with but found out to be a player, is back in my life. Over the summer, he liked 2 girls but ended up dating one of them and then cheating on her after she moved away for s...

Why do you catch so much hell as a mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - HELLO Ladies and Gents, I have a question when you are the mistress why do you catch so much hell. I have been involved with my friend for about two years now and i love him very much and will do anything for him. But this is my problem in the b...

He doesn't love or want me so why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I've been with my partner bout 11 years. Four years ago he had an affair which lasted on and off a year.. he eventually left but never admitting the affair saying he was working until he had no option but to tell the truth. After a bit ...

Is it a pipe dream that I have trying to make my marriage work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am so confused. I am 37. Have a 5 year old daughter and a 17 year old step son. My wife has bounced from job to job and I have held my professional management position for 15 years. I make almost 100,000 a year and her spending habits have ...

In love with my ex boss/ married man...after he told me it was over at home, its not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am so frustrated, I like many of you got involved with a married man, and he was my boss. Its so sick the more i think of it. He had told me he was unhappy in his marriage and it had been bad for a long time, well after 6 months of us seeing each ...

I'm engaged and slept with someone else and now I'm pregant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My fiancee and I were having problems and I thought it was the end of our six year relationship, one night I got severley intoxicated and slept with someone else which has resulted in a unwanted pregnancy. I feel like I should tell him but my ...

Am I worrying over nothing... or is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for nine years and married for two. We have three kids together all under the age of five. Hhe is in the military and recently went to do training in a different state. He started talking to a girl and lied to ...

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...

Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is ...

My attraction grows stronger every day and it's making my relationship hectic!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 6 months now with my boyfriend who I love very much, But recently I started having second thoughts about us. I have been spending alot of time with his brother lately who I have known alot longer and have always ...

Two cheating people on a weekly basis for 8 months

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi, For the past 8 months I have been seeing this guy. He has a girlfriend far away with kids and I am engaged. We see each other on a weekly basis and go on vacations to amazing places all the time. Is it normal to have a pure sexual relationship ...

What can I do with my cheater boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a troubled relationship for the past 6 years. It has been on and off and he has cheated with numerous women. I recently took him back and we began counseling and therapy for his bi polar disorder. I am supporting him and I went to his ...

Why won't he walk away from me and save his current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hello aunts...i know what im doing isn't right...ive been seeing a guy who has a gf for almost six months...and have made 3 attempts to cut him off and obviously have been unsuccessful... i truely don't know what to do...he seems to be kind of we...

He said he has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - me and my boyfriend met at the beginning of the year and before we met i had booked a trip to go trevelling for almost a month. we moved in together a week before i went travelling and within the week i realised that he had a problem with coke. he ...

How do we keep our families intact and remain friends?

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28 November 2008 (M) - i am married since 7 yrs and has got happy family of three,we've a 2 yrs old son.i am a practicing gynaecologist and also work nearby govt hosp.a staff nurse from there and i have been friends since last 7 months.she is married has got 3yrs ...

Should I wait until she returns from this "trip" to give her an ultimatum, me or him? What should I do?

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28 November 2008 (M) - Basically I am seeing this girl (not officially my girlfriend) who has a boyfriend of 2 years who lives quite far away. She has told me that she has fallen in love with me, and I have fallen in love with her too. But she also says that she still ...

Should I be worried that he's cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Well here it goes again my 3rd question in 5 days guess I needed more help then I though or I just think way to much either way here it goes. My b/f who just turned 18 and I had been dating 3 months everthing was going great I loved him he lov...

Is it right to date married men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi Friends, my question is this almost all men that approach me are married men. It is right to date married men? I find out that these married men i love so much more than the unmarried. Show i go on dating them please help....

Cheating wife - long but impossible to answer, please try...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - It's a long conveluted story, but in a nutshell: my wife suffers from bipolar disorder. it had not been properly diagnosed until recently but we've been dealing with it since we dated(7yrs total-3.5 married) We both have had the same number of ...

How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her ...

Should I forgive him for having a affair with the housemaid or should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Should I forgive him for having a affair with the housemaid or should I leave him?...

Is my husband making a fool of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi i'm maried 31 years, we met 2 women in out local a few years ago and became friends as I thought. It seems now that my husband has been texting one of them for a while (shes a widow) and last month I caught him in her house, he said they are only ...

My husband had an affair with his sister in law. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! I just found an email on my husband's account from his siter-in-law. It was refering to them having sex and loving each other. I asked my husband about it, and he told me everything. This affair went on before I was in the picture. We have ...

What do his texts mean? Is he flirting big time? He's married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - So I have been texting this married man, who is 9 years older then me. I am 17, I will be 18 next October. I texted him because I needed advice. He told me what to do, tell the kid I like him as a friend. I told him that I told him that, and im in ...

We're dating but he like another female...how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My bf and I been together for 2 yrs now and he recently met a girl he really likes. Now, we're not planning on breaking up with each other but she does apparently "appeal" more to him than I do and this is what got me freakin out. How do I win m...

I kissed a girl and I liked it. Was it cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?...

Is kissing considered cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...

I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I don't trust him at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I dont trust him at all. I always feel like he his cheating on me. Is this just paranoia because he lied or is this my womans intuition....

Internet cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of three and a half years has cheated on me over the internet before. Several times. I have asked that he absolutely not use Instant Messenger for that very reason. He promised that he wasn't using IM at all. Recently, I found out that ...

Is there any reason to refuse sex with the one you love? Does this mean she is cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5831 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Dear cupid, How would you know if a girl is cheating on you?? What are the signs?? Do girls have times where they are not in the mood for sex?? I would say there's no reason for you to say no to sex when you do it with loved one?? am i right? ...

I love this girl... she says she loves me also, but she has a boyfriend who she has been with for nearly 2 years and won't decide immediately who she wants to be with. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I started seeing this girl after I met her about 4 months ago. I got her number and we started texting. She said that she had just split up with her boyfriend of 1 and a half years and was really down in the dumps. I asked if she wanted to meet up ...

I want him back, what shall I do?

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25 November 2008 (F) - hi. i split up with my boyfriend and we were together for a long time. We split up because rumours had it that he was cheating on me. So i ended it. we were talking a couple of weeks ago and he said he never cheated on me but did tell his mate to...

Can you love somebody and cheat on them? Should we stay together or split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - well its been about 3 weeks now since she's been home from the vacation im still unsure what exactly happened while she was there with that other guy but i cannot quit thinking about it , she had told me on the phone that we would just have to see ...

We plan to marry in January but I can't forget that she has been unfaithful, please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Dear Sir, I’m happy to stumble upon your website. I have a fiancée whom we have dated for 6 years 3 months. I really love this girl and she claims to love me too. We arranged to get married early January 2009. All the marriage arrangements have been ...

After 6 years his wife still won't sign the divorce papers. Wouldn't it be better for her to let it go ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I really need some advice... I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. we've been seeing each other for almost a year and things are wonderful when we're together. Currently we live 3 hrs apart, but we talk daily! The problem is his wife! They are ...

Out of the blue, she says she's pregnant with my husbands baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over six years now. We sepereated back in December of 06 and got back together in July of 07....Been together ever since. Before we seperated we had two children that are now six and four. After we got back ...

What does he mean by "it wouldn't bother him if I cheated?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - help me untangle this weird love thing I am in please... recently I got together with a guy and its been great... we were talking the other day about a whole trust issue thing and he mentioned to me that if I cheat he wouldn't bother chasing me or ...

My Mom's drunk BF harassed me and I'm afraid to tell her the truth!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hi i'm 18 and life has never been better for me up until a week ago. i was staying with my mom because she hasn't seen me in a while and wednesday she had to work so i was at her house with her husband. it was his day off and with him being an ...

What should I do to ask him and get him to tell me the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. His best friend is always around us and me and his friend have always gotten along. Over the past couple of months the best friend and i have gotten close and i have developed feeling about ...

We aren't allowed to see each other, and my heart is broken.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - myself and my girlfriend split 2 weeks ago under strange a very strange situation. neither of us decided to call it a day but because of problems with the neighbours and a fight we had i was not allowed to contact her or go near the address. for the ...

The ex wife, is there anything to worry about there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hi,Really hope you can give me some advice please! I met this really nice man about five months ago after chatting online, He has been separated from his wife for a couple of years and his divorce has just come through. We spend every weekend to...

My husband had an affair and now she and her sister won't leave me and my family alone! What can I do to stop them bothering us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Heres my problem my husband had a brief affair with neighbor we lost our home his Job we are doing better we went to counseling and keeping our family together. She is also back with her husband well i keep getting messeges from her and her sist...

Am I simply his 'odd encounter'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Started seeing this guy 6 months ago, and found out 2 months ago that he is married. He is in a sexless marriage - of course that is only heresay! I only get to see him about once a month as he's often away on business, and is terrified of...

Can someone please help me to untangle my love life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ahhhh I suck at relationships! It's pissing me off! I'm 19 and I love my ex boyfriend more than anything, and he's in love with me. But he moved away a while back, so we're not together. I don't fancy a long-distance relationship. So that's Guy #1. ...

Do I tell him what I did in the past... or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am currently in my early 20s and just graduated, so I am looking for a job now. My boyfriend dropped the bomb yesterday. We have been dating for about 8 years odd and he popped the question. This relationship started when I was in my...

He wants an open relationship and threesomes! Should I give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now. He's 18, I'm 19. About a month ago, he met another girl (17) whom he really enjoys hanging out with. At first, it didn't bother me, but then he started hanging out with her a lot more than me and ...

I feel my husband is using me for sex and to sleep with other women...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for almost 2 years, 6 months ago I started to have an affair with an older man - I was very good to him, and I know he was completely infatuated/in love with me. I withdrew completely from my husband for the time the affair was ...

Does he want me back or is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me a month and a half ago. I was desolate, and did the whole begging him to get back with me thing, which I now regret, but I was in a very bad way. He was reasonable and gave me a straight answer about why he was ...