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writes:My bf and I been together for 2 yrs now and he recently met a girl he really likes. Now, we're not planning on breaking up with each other but she does apparently "appeal" more to him than I do and this is what got me freakin out.How do I win my boyfriend back!? Reply to this Question
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reader, 48years  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 The dating relationship sets the ceiling for the marriage-the question is, how will you ever know if he picked you or if he is pining for someone else?
Cut him loose. You are too precious to be second best for any one!
A man who REALLY loves you will find a way to get you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): You don't fight for him or cry or beg with him to stay. You just don't do that. Never show him that you are desperate. Tell him that is fine and that he must go. Set him free, you cannot tie him to you if he does not want to be with you. Be mature and let him go. It might surprise he more if you are not asking him to stay and beg and plead for another chance. That might worry him and make him think.However, set him free, if he comes back to you, he is yours, if not, he never was.Let go of him, no matter how difficult, stay nice and calm, be friendly and remain in contact on a friendly basis. He might soon realize how mature and wonderful you are and will probably start comparing all your good qualities and might be back sooner then you think.In the meanwhile go out with friends and continue with your life. Don't put your life on hold and stay at home sitting crying about him. No that will not bring him back. Be strong and act confident.
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