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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi Friends, my question is this almost all men that approach me are married men. It is right to date married men? I find out that these married men i love so much more than the unmarried. Show i go on dating them please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): By dating married men you will almost always be a looser, as they very seldom leave there wives for the girlfriend or mistress. Maybe you go for married men because they are not "available" and subconciously that is what you want as you may feel you don't deserve to have a partner to yourself, so you are happy to take whatever you can get. It is a sing of low self esteem. But maybe you are afraid of intimacy and don't want anyone getting to close to you, so you "conveniently" choose partners with whom you can never have a truly committed relationship as a unconscious way of protecting yourself.
When you get involved with someone who is married or in a relationship with another person, you are accepting that person's leftovers. Surely you deserve better!!!!!
I suggest if you meet someone and feeling strong towards him, but he is married you should say to him: " I care about you very much, but I have a rule, I never get involved with someone who is with another partner. I you leave your relationship please let me know.
If you are involved with someone who is married, say to him: "I love you very much, but what we are doing is wrong and not healthy for anyone. I love myself too much to be treated this way. I cannot see you anymore. Once you have left your partner, call me and let me know.
The following does not mean available:
He is with somebody but promises to leave soon
With someone but does not really love her
With someone but they are not having sex anymore
With someone but he is only staying for the kids
Find somebody that is AVAILABLE and who can value and respect you and give you all the love and attention you deserve.
Josephine Hart said: "We do have choices , but not without some agony".Let go of the married guys.
Henry David Thoreau said: " It has been written that we are no greater than our dreams. Dreams are the touchstones of our characters".
Set your goals and live your dreams!!!
Good luck.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): No its not, 1. you are getting used for sex ( bit on the side) 2. you could get your heart broken 3. kids involved 4. you are breaking some one elses heart, home, confidence and so on, get a single man and leave well alone with other peoples lives..
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Why would you think its right under any circumstance? Would you want your husband to date another girl? WHen would that be okay?
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