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Can you love somebody and cheat on them? Should we stay together or split?

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Question - (25 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, *-tom writes:

well its been about 3 weeks now since she's been home from the vacation im still unsure what exactly happened while she was there with that other guy but i cannot quit thinking about it , she had told me on the phone that we would just have to see how it went when she got home, she in ways seems to be allright with everything but now its me that asks myself should we really be together if we can both cheat on each other do we really love each other ?? should we be together? we're still having them little arguements and i just dont feel like i make her happy as far as sex its wonderful always has been i dont feel like im up to her standards as far as doing the things she likes to do so im up for more suggestions !!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008):

So you both cheated on each other?? I have been on both sides before... never at the same time. But, I think this would depend on a lot. How long you have been together and what the circumstances were. Cheating is wrong, for sure, I think everyone would agree, but at the same time, I do think mistakes happen.

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A female reader, 48years  +, writes (29 November 2008):

48years agony auntYou don't cheat on someone you love. You can't bear to see the hurt in their eyes when they look at you.

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