| Should I wait until she returns from this "trip" to give her an ultimatum, me or him? What should I do? |
| | Question - (28 November 2008) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
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writes:Basically I am seeing this girl (not officially my girlfriend) who has a boyfriend of 2 years who lives quite far away. She has told me that she has fallen in love with me, and I have fallen in love with her too. But she also says that she still loves her boyfriend. I have told her that it cannot go on like this and that she has to choose between us, to which she agreed. I know for a fact that it would break her heart if I wasn't a part of her life because I have become such a big part of it and when I have threatened to leave her recently she has burst into tears. I feel like the spare part as long as she still has him and the thought of them together makes me want to puke.I have just found out that she has been lying to me about what she is doing this weekend and is in fact going up to see him and apparently she has a college trip next week but I'm severely doubting that as well tbh. I am so angry about this lying and then sneaking about with me. And to clear things up, she does genuinely love me she isn't playing me like a harp!#But I'm kind of lost at what to do right now.... Should I wait til she "gets back from college trip" and give her a final ultimatum me or him? Or what? Thanks for all ur help guys!!!
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