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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I am enjoying the excitement but there are however too many moral reasons to stop this incoming affair. What would you do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I have been secretly emailing with a friend's husband and it is getting heavy. There is crazy attraction and they will be moving close by soon. I'm not sure how to handle this. It was just sort of flirty before but now it's too close to home. I ...

Dating other boys upset him, thus we broke up. What is the best way to win him back, or get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Hi guys im 15. basically i started talking to this boy for a couple of months and i guess i took advantage of all his compliments. I couldnt commit to anything with the boy because my freind also liked him for a little, he understood that but said ...

We both agree watching porn is cheating and the only issue in the relationship, yet he can't refrain from this habit!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been engaged for over a year and, to my dismay, my fiance has been looking at porn every opportunity he gets. He had made countless promises to top but has been sneaking. I have caught him on our computer, as he tried to sneak a way that he ...

I messed up. I cheated on my boyfriend with my brothers best friend who I have liked for ages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - So I have had this boyfriend for about 5 months now an we are so happy an so in love, we are always talking about how we are goin to be together forever I would never cheat on him, or so I thought. This is this guy Ill call him Joe (not his re...

I am considering cheating

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have been married for 10 yrs have 2 children but have had an all but non existent sex life during the marriage. I have tried seducing her buying presents doing all the household chores and even explaining that i will have to walk away from the ...

I know he's been cheating because I saw proof, but he doesn't know. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we do not live together. Over the past year he has become very cagey about his mobile phone - takes it everywhere with him including the bathroom. Last autumn, ...

Should I give it another go with my girlfriend after she cheated?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. I know it doesn't seem like a long time but we have been friends for a couple years and with her I feel different then I have with any other girl. So I was out of town recently for my job and she ...

Should I tell my cousin that I saw his girlfriend cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - oh my god i walked in on my best friend having sex with her boyfriends best friend! i dont know what to do. her boyfriend is my cousin and even though we're not that close hes still blood!should i snitch on my best friend and help my cousin or ...

She is always getting male calls....is she cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I met a girl of about 19 yrs of age, whenever am with her she receives a lot of male calls telling her to come over their place. Sometimes she will tell them that it is late that she will come the next day. After that she will tell me that the guy ...

She's always flirted and continues to flirt on the web, she says it's harmless, is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - My g/f's 360 page(sorta like myspace)page.Almost all her friends are men.I'm a light skinned man and all these guys are dark skinned.The darker the guy the bigger he is.I'm not small but with all the meds I take I get erectile dysfunction.I can take ...

I'm tired of faking happiness when I know my wife's getting so personal with someone else... in the Internet. Is this tolerable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, and God Bless you all. This is a good thing that you are all doing. I feel guilty for doing this, but about 6 months ago, I had this strange feeling that my wife was using her computer at work and the computer at home to talk to ...

Suffering far from home with a bf who hates me, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Since the beginning of our 3yr relationship, my bf and I have had troubles. I found out through investigation, that he was still involved with his ex, and by the time the info came to me, I was pregnant. I gave him a second chance, but he treated ...

Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...

OMG!!! Why did I let my friend kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he makes me really happy, I love him so much. In that time I've had a few men interested in me, and I've never wanted to or felt the need to cheat. However last week my male friend, who I've known for a ...

She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...

Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...

I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...

I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - This is probalbly the dumbest question there is.... I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man. This was last April that I found out. It's almost been a year of recovery and trying my best. Well everything was f...

I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and danc...

I cheated - what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I cheated on my boyfiend at the New Year he doesn't know but I was wondering what I should do, he doesn't suspect anything. Shall I just keep it to myself or tell him what happened? Please help this is so important....

As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...

Should I call my ex boyfriend's current girlfriend and let her know that he has been playing both of us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Wondering if i should call my cheating ex boyfriend's current girl and let her know that he has been playing both of us. I am the only one that knows about it. She is only 22 and he is turning 34 this year. So she is young and I would be lying if I ...

I've made my mind up...what are my rights??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - It is thanks, by and large, to the really helpful replies and other articles on this website that I have now found the strength to tell my unfaithful, lying, controlling, husband that I will no longer tolerate his awful behaviour to me. While I was ...

I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for som...

He said he hated cheatings but cheated himself! What to do about our long distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Ive been with him a very long time (over 2 years) he used to tell me that he hated cheats and lies i thought i could always trust him, its a long distant relasionship. I love him but it hurts, recently i found out he cheated. He says it was a ...

He isn't sure what he wants, and it's making ME confused. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am 17, and me and my boyfriend have just gone though serious trouble. It started when we argued over soeting stupid, i was drunk and overeacted, and threw my phone at him. He got really angry over the next few days although i tried to apologise ...

Cheating fiance - help me please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I found out that my fiance has feelings for another guy. We have had a stressfull few months,she started a new job, im about to lose mine, im clearly suffering from stress and depression but not getting any support from her, she ended up turning to ...

I cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i have been with my man for 3 years and things are great we are getting married in a few months but recently i had it off my ex, help since we split 6 years ago we have remained good friends and now this what to do?...

I'm thinking ther only way to accept her past is to HAVE a past myself. I feel the need to cheat on my gf.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Ok, let's start from the beginning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. We are very close and we love each other dearly. We also see each other almost everyday. My problem is that she is more "open" then I am. She is th...

The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...

I am considering giving my daughter a sibling, even though I have severe problems with my partner, would this be this selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

25 February 2008 (?) - ok so here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we have a 3yr old daugther. our relationship is not the greatest. he has cheated on me before(more that once) and right now we went from living together to me and my daughter living at ...

My ex was not right for me, my new lover lied to me and I had to terminate my pregnancy. How do I cope with these burdens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am going through some major anxiety and i believe its because of my most recent loses. I was pregnant with my ex of 2 years' baby. We were supposed to get married but when we shouldve been growing together and being there for one another is w...

Is my husband having an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband has been working with his female assistant for about 8 months now. Up until the last month, I had not had reason to suspect anything that their relationship was anything other than professional. However, last month, one week he called her ...

My ex cheated and then begged for me back, I seem to always go for the wrong guy...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 February 2008 (?) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 ish weeks ago, I had gone to visit him (we live about 3 hours apart) and he didn't even turn up. Then I find out that he was sleeping with his ex at the time. He really hurt me and I have been finding it stupidly...

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

I continued writing to him, yet he did not answer, what could he be thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - hi all i posted yesterday but am telling you how it continued, because im so confused. ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children together. ive felt for years that things have been very one sided and that i wasnt respected so nearly a ...

What does ex want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6107 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend and me have recently started talking again, we broke up in the early/middle of 2007. And everything kind of "blew up" and we weren't speaking all through summer, until the beginning of this school year. Lately he's been doing alot ...

He cheated on me and I can't get rid of the anger I feel towards him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - hi my boyfriend cheated on me and i know he is sincerley sory and i want to forgive, though i try i just can't seem to get rid of this anger i feel towards him, even though i know he is sorry and has told me he regrets it cant explain why he did it ...

How do I rebuild my trust in him, it is ruining our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs has lied to me many times over our rship but never actually cheated on me. he has carried on friendships with females behind my back and lied about who he is hanging out with. he maintains that it was never because he had ...

Which things do married women who go to bachelorette parties consider cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - Which things do married women who go to bachelorette parties consider cheating? lap dances, touching the mans penis, giving blowjobs etc. My wife has never been to a bachelorette party and does not want to go to any, but i would like to know the ...

How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...

How to find the strength to end a six year affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Unfortunately I have been very foolish in that I have fallen deeply in love with an older married man. I know it is wrong and that I am wasting my time, but it now feels impossible to end as the feelings get stronger and the bond between us ...

No reply from my affair since Valentine's, why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - hi all ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children.the past year has been real tough for us as i asked for a seperation because i felt we had drifted apart. within this time while going out with friends i met a younger man than me 6 years ...

He says he wants me close yet goes out with other girls - while I don't seem to have the strength to leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real ...

Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on h...

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) - Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...

Should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Ok so I have known this guy for about 5 months. We started out as good friends but began dating and dated for about 2 of those months. We had a long distance relationship with the agreement not to date anyone else out of respect, and b/c we didn't ...

When we are alone in a private location on the plane what are some fun sexual activities that we can do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - I often fly night time flights that do not have many other passengers. I have thought that it would be fun to join the mile high club. What information/advice do you have about joining the mile high club? I would really like to do it with my gi...

Confronting my cheating boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - This past weekend, I visited my boyfriend at his home. I found some text messages between him and another woman that suggested there is a relationship between the two of them. She stated to him to let her know when he gets home so they can talk ...