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writes: Which things do married women who go to bachelorette parties consider cheating? lap dances, touching the mans penis, giving blowjobs etc. My wife has never been to a bachelorette party and does not want to go to any, but i would like to know the answers to these questions if a party ever comes up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Lap dances aren't cheating, neither is it cheating for her to touch him while he dances on her (very very normal for lap dances). I think if she kisses him or anything further than that, then it is cheating. BJs are definitely cheating.In general, male strippers encourage the women to touch their genitals while they dance on them, this is just part of the act. It's pretty fun. I have been to many bachelorette parties, and I have never gone further than grinding with the stripper or getting a lap dance from him. If she has self-control, she'll be able to use all the arousal she gets from the stripper (which is rather arousing) and channel it into awesome sex with you later in the night. I always have amazing sex with my hubby afterwards because I have fresh images in my mind to think about while we are doing the deed... that's my advice to her, to just use all the sexual energy and save it for you! It's a good way to avoid the temptation to cheat with the strippers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): what kind of parties are these?i dont know what she would consider cheating but i consider all three cheating-michael
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Ummm...I have NEVER been to a bachelorette party where penis exposure was the norm, let alone giving blow jobs! Both would be considered cheating, in my book, though.
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