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*arcilene
writes: Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real friends, to talk about my history.So I didn't go out with another people just with him. So now he tells that he doesn't leave me and he wants me close,and I say okay because I love him, but it's hard for me to see him go out with another girl and I can do nothing about that for change. I just want to forget him and leave him too but I can't do that. I mean I can't live like that, but I don't know what to do. So dear friends i'm sorry if I wrote wrongly, it's because i just started to take English classes. I am from Brazil And I have been here for about 4 years but just now start to go to shool. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): You are being used and should walk away. Take each day as it comes and you will get stronger and stronger and in time you will have a network of friends. you can mail me if you need to. Just leave him because you do deserve better.take carexx
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reader, korculan queen +, writes (23 February 2008):
It sounds as though he is just with you until something better comes along. That's usually what guys say like I want you close but I am not sure about how I feel about you. That is a very mixed signal but guy talk for you will do for now and when I find someone else you will be gone. When guys do not want to get close to you even after 1 year and 2 months AND DATE OTHER WOMEN it spells PLAYER AND USER. Find someone else.
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