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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on ...

Trapped in my marriage and tempted to cheat again....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am currently seperated from my husband. We met when I was 17 years old, I got married to him at the age of twenty. I thought that I was mature enough to handle something like marriage. However three years later I am realizing that we are ...

I'm pregnant, he's distant and I'm not sure if he's cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - OK, here's the story: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 8 months now and have been in a relationship for just over 5 years (much of which was during college and quite long distance). I've been really happy for the majority of ...

How can I find the truth without tearing my family apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - How can I trust my wife again? We have been married 10 years and we have 3 young children. I thought we have been very happily married with no major problems, but got the shock of my life last week when I found some very inappropriate text messages...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

Not in love with my wife and having an affair but can't leave because of my kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been having an affair with someone for 3 years. I have two children aged 7 and 5. I am not in love with my wife any more. I want more than anything to live with the girl I am having the affair with because I am in love with her but I don't ...

If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?...

Is once a cheat always a cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have had a gut feeling for a while that my boyfrend was seeing someone else so yesterday (and i know its wrong)i went through his mobile phone to see if i could find any evidence on there. there were picture texts from a girl showing just her ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

I think my boyfriend is hiding something from me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5823 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriends hiding something from me cause he always recently takes off and leaves me home so he could go to the store or to work on his days off. Has he started an affair with someone?...

I am afraid I have ruined my marriage with this affair, what to do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

29 December 2008 (?) - Hello Cupids I apologize in advance as this may get a bit long, and any advice is welcome so please do reply if you have any thoughts. I will try to keep it clear and organized but my head is a mess so sorry if this story seems messy too. I ...

Should I contact her or is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, 3 months ago I left my girlfriend of 16 months, now I think maybe I made a huge mistake. I thought maybe she had fallen out of love with me. For one thing, she works with an ex-boyfriend who is also her best friend. They go out of town t...

We've kissed and he has a girfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been working with someone for about 6months now, we get one really well, always laughing and have a weird connection, like we've known each other for years. He recently told me that he likes me, but he has a live in girlfriend of 12yrs. He is ...

Am I wasting time waiting for him? He was unfaithful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were going through a hard time recently, (all down to him being unfaithfull last year)i dont always bring it up but there are times when it gets to me and i do make references about it. over the phone we had a discussion, mainly ...

Can things work the second time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I have been getting very close to a lady who was on the verge of divorce, but her husband has manipulated her to go back together, they did seperate for months, he was gambling and drinking, but it does look as if they are back together, they were ...

What if he cheated on me while I was out of town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and deeply in love with this guy we live together and everything but 3 weeks ago we had alittle fight so i went to kentucky to visit my dad i come home and we are still together and in love but this girl text his phone asking him if he ...

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

Desperate for help: crippling trust and jealousy issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im fifteen and I have crippling trust and jealousy issues. My gf of five months is very devoted. But I cant help but feel uncontrollable jealousy over small things and worry over things that havent even happened. I actually have times where Im ...

My husband has beaten me up.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. ...

I cheated on my husband with his best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I am a very young girl and I am married and just recently had a baby... Well I have wondered for a while what it would be like to be with another man because my husband is the only one I have only ever been with... so last night I cheated on him and ...

Why did I ever let myself be fooled with flattery etc?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for the past 4 years. We have 2 children and another due in 6 months time. A few weeks ago at the beginning of december, I was at the usual office party and a co worker came on to me strong and told me she was crazy ...

Does it seem to you like he's cheating? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 22 nearly 23. I'm a mother of 2 and third one is on the way. My fiancee is nearly 30 and I think my husbund is cheating on me. I'm 7 months pregnant and he hasn't touched me since he found out bascially. He goes out till late, not callin...

My husband is an alcoholic & addict but I love him! how can I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 27 years, and a few months ago I found out he was having a affair with a woman he met at a treatment facility. He is a Alcoholic and is Bipolar. This woman is also an Alcoholic and Addict. The first thing I did ...

2 kids another on way, think my man is cheating on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hi im 22 nearly 23 ima mother of 2 and third one is on the way my fiancee is nearly 30 and i think my husbund is cheating on me im 7 months pregnant he hasnt touched me since he found out bascially he goes out till late not calling and phone...

Is it a reason to cheat on someone because he/she is skinny?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Well i never done this but i need to get this off of my chest. Ever since my ex cheated on me, i'm having difficulties with my self esteem. The thing is he cheated on me with a girl who has more curves then i do(probably size 10 or 12) and i'm a si...

Need help to get over him, I don't want my daughter to witness us always fighting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I desperately need help trying to get over someone I love dearly. I oftentimes question myself as to why I even still love him after all the hurt and pain that he has caused me. I have been with him for 4 years. We have a beautiful daughter who is 1 ...

I'm not sure if I like Sophie or not, I'm confused, any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - hello everyone, im scott, and sorry if this takes long, but ive made one big mistake, I have a 3 yr old with my ex we where together for 5 years, well we split in jan this year, i then started going out with this really nice girl sophie my whole fa...

Her boyfriend is planning on cheating and I want to tell my daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I just found out that my 21 year old daughter's boyfriend is planning to cheat on her, only the way I found out was dishonest on my part. When he came to pick her up tonight he left his cell phone at our house. We immediately called her and they ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for almost 10 years. We have 2 kids. We met, one month later we moved in together, on month after that I was pregnant. It all happened so fast. I tried doing the right thing and learn to love him as a husband so we got married. ...

I'm in love, but is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - HELP! me and my boyfriend have only been going out a couple of days and he has been sayin that he loves me more then life its self and that he has never felt this way before. but now he is giving me the cold shoulder. he wont answer any of my texts ...

Online dirtiness until I found out she has a BF. Now I feel bad and I still like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - ok me and this girl really like each other, we was talking online and we did dirty things online also but then she told me she has a boyfriend, i felt really bad for what i did with her i didnt know she have a boyfriend what should i do? ...

How do I show that I care and feel his pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - I cheated on my 8yr boyfriend. He came to know, i asked for forgiveness. Its been a year, but he is still hurting a lot. He says i have not participated in his pain, though i have cried and gone through a lot emotionally myself in trying to win him ...

Is my new husband cheating or am I just paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - I have only been married for eight weeks, and for the last five weeks i have been going out of my mind with worry, my husband works away from home, and we only see each other every three to four weeks for a day or two at a time, however, i received ...

Ex is confusing the hell out of me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - So a few months ago my first real love broke up with me. I was so heart broken. We try to be mature about it and be friends. Well that doesn't work. I guess we are so sexually attracted to each other that every time we try to hang out, we end up ...

What could be the possible date of conception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - hi everyone i just want to ask, i think my partner is cheating on me, i need to know this.. my partner is due to give birth on 16th dec, can u tell me the date of conception, roughly?...

Should I tell her I cheated? It would ruin our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Here goes. First of all, My girlfriend means the world to me. Honestly. I've thought about it, and I really, really love her. She's the reason I wake up in the morning. She's the reason I breathe. When I look at her, all I can see is happiness. All ...

Who do I choose? I'm married but I have feelings for a coworker.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 of them. Recently, someone at work has fallen for me in a big way and I feel the same. I know it's wrong but we have kissed. We have always been good friends and he is the sweetest guy, he ...

Did my wife visit her ex-boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - I’m a British man working and living in the Middle East with my family. Recently I was on the internet and went to Yahoo mail. My Filipina wife’s Yahoo email came up on the screen because she had forgotten to log off her email when leaving the ...

Can I be forgiven for drunkenly cheating on my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - I am a freshman in college and did not drink in high school. In my first semester I started drinking at parties and get-togethers but very rarely did I get drunk. As I became more accustomed to drinking, it didn't really bother me to start ...

Is my husband on the down low?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for 2.5 years and have not had sex for 17 months. I am trying to determine if my husband is on the down low. Does anyone have any signs I can look for? Or help me understand why we have not had sex for 17 months since I have ...

I need some pointers on how to make my marriage strong again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - I have quite a long story to tell here and I hope it's not too long. I am a happily married man of 37 (wife is 36). We have been together since high school. We always got along great! We also have an 11 year old daughter together. About 3 years ag...

Is an affair ever justified

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attentio...

In a very complicated situation with a friend, his girlfriend and a crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Ok, well i really need some advice to a complicated situation! Well theres this guy who i met last year. Me and him became really close and we became bestfriends. In the beginning i liked him but he had a girlfriend. After awhile i just kind of ...

How can I ask forgiveness and make him trust me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - ive been together with my boyfriend for 8 years we have two kids together. and a year ago when i got pregnant with my second baby i cheated on him with someone else. i didnt now if the kid was his or the others so i told him 2months after the baby ...

My wife can't stand me, I think she's cheating, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - Hey All, I am in a relationship where my wife cant stand me. She says we are not friends, finds me repulsive and would prefer not to talk to me, much less anything else. We have 3 children and i have always been the bread winner. I am an alcoholi...

Thought of her cheating crop up in her mind. How do I get over this paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - Hi guys looking for some advice. I am 25 and have been in a relationship for 8 years with my girlfriend, we have a son and Everything has been great in our relationship but for a few years now I have suffered with really intense thoughts that she ...

How do I tell my husband to leave? The psychic said I have good energy with this other guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - I am 45, in my second marriage and I want my husband to leave me. We have been married for 5 years. We lived together for 4 years. I pay all the bills. He pays for the grocery bill. Financially I am so strapped. Of course, he says if I need ...

Feeling paranoid, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hey i have been going out with my new girlfriend for nearly 3 weeks now but I'm feeling incredibly paranoid. I always think she is messing around behind my back. My ex girlfriend cheated on me once and i was with her for 2 years and i keep thinking ...

My best friend told me she had a fling with my husband 30 years ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - My school friend from the 50,s has just come back from Canada for a holiday in the U.K.Last week we went out for a few drinks and she got quite drunk .She told me she had a fling with my husband on one of her visits back here 30years ago but never ...