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writes:I'm 18 and deeply in love with this guy we live together and everything but 3 weeks ago we had alittle fight so i went to kentucky to visit my dad i come home and we are still together and in love but this girl text his phone asking him if he wanted to hang out of course i flipped out i asked him what it was all about he said it was nothin that he didnt want anything to do with her she texted my phone and told me that they screwed and hung out and everything but he says she is just tryin to start crap and split us up he tells me im the only girl he wants to be with so of course me and her fuss back and forth but she is one of those type girls that wont leave you alone and i think she is still texting him and she will keep doing it he hasnt ever lied to me and we love each other but im scared of getting hurt again what if he is really cheating on me or what if he did while i was out of town...what do i do please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): I think your mistake was to walk away from this 'little fight' without resolving what it was all about.
It sounds rather like he sought comfort elsewhere while you were gone, especially if this other female hadn't been texting him before you left. On the other hand, if she learned that you'd gone off in a huff and she'd been eyeing him up in the past, it was an ideal opportunity to make her move.
Either way, by going off to visit your dad you left him vulnerable to a predatory female, and him the opportunity to stray while there was some residual anger hanging around. It wasn't the most mature thing to do in the circumstances. However, you can at least learn something from this. You'd be wise in future to sort out your differences rather than run away from them and never, ever, go to bed on an argumnet.
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reader, miss.bexii  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 if you love him as much as you say you do, you have to put your trust in him else it is going to cause problems in your relationship, i know how it feels to get hurt and how hard it is to put your trust in someone after you have been hurt but you will know deep down inside if you can really trust him or not. good luck xxx
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