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*hris1003
writes:Hi guys looking for some advice. I am 25 and have been in a relationship for 8 years with my girlfriend, we have a son and Everything has been great in our relationship but for a few years now I have suffered with really intense thoughts that she is cheating on me. This hasnt just happened with her though this has gone on with any partner I have ever really cared about.I dont consider myself to be insecure and I am a confident person but these thoughts just crop up in my mind. Sometimes the thoughts are realer than other times but it is really starting to get to me. I think that i may need some sort of help, I feel that i cant live my life like this. Any advice on any help i can seek will be greatly received. Thanks chris
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reader, sweetie6116  +, writes (2 January 2009):
Hi Chris,
I can certainly identify with you...I have a few questions for you...
1. Have you had a past relationship tht someone WAS cheating? Was it YOU or some partner of yours?
2. How about your parents, did one parent get caught cheating when you were growing up.
3. I am assuming that you guys are not married and you have a child? Why aren't you married?
I have these same issues, however, my hubby is VERY flirtatious with women, it annoys me to NO END. In fact, we may be getting a divorce...I don't think I deserve it. Now he says it is because I am insecure but I am sorry, I don't embarrass him like that. Iam confident in myself and know that am an attractive woman. I know he is outgoing and everything, but he has a hard time drawing a line to where enough is enough.
anyway....good luck and let us know how you are doing....
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (24 December 2008):
 This must be really hard for you :( has any thing ever aroused suspicion that she may be cheating for real? Well if not, then personally i'd say you just gotta keep reassuring yourself, that you're just being daft, i've been through this situation myself and honestly that worked for me. It took a while but I got there eventually. Now if something has aroused suspicion, then i'd suggest talking to her, and just stress that its for your peace of mind, and explain to her what you've said here. Hope everything turns out good for you :)
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