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writes:Ok, well i really need some advice to a complicated situation! Well theres this guy who i met last year. Me and him became really close and we became bestfriends. In the beginning i liked him but he had a girlfriend. After awhile i just kind of stopped liking him so it was watever. But, his girlfriend hates me for how close me and him are. She has told me many times before that she thinks i like him and i have told her countless times that that is not the case! However, she didnt seem to understand that him and i are just friends.Now she gets it better but she still hates me! She talks about me behind my back and she is constantly giving me dirty looks when i am around her boyfriend. It really gets me angry and i have told my bestfriend about it but nothing really changed. What makes me angry is that he doesnt see how mean and fake she is!!! and im afraid that if i try to tell him something he will turn against me..another problem... i think i am beginning to like him again after i have convinced many people that i dont like him.! This situation is really confusing!!! Any advice anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): yeah
huni i understand fully what your going through
2 years ago i met nath... he is my bestmate
u justr need to hang in a support him through what ever arises. i did that with him.... erin (best mates ex) was a bitch to me and everytime we hung out as a group she would get ejlous and send me weird texts asking if i was sleeping with him....
turns out she is just insecure... thats all the other girl is... support your best mate and get him to supportr his girlfriend... if u 2 are bestfriend he will talk to you about his feelings... when he is having doubtsincourage him to discuss it with her!! it will allow her to become aware of her actions... in nathans case... she was only staying with him because she thought she could do no better...
they broke up now after being together for 7 months...
he is now seeing me and we support and raise my nephew as our own child... his parents died
things will work out
just stick in there for me huni
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reader, secondend guessing love +, writes (24 December 2008):
 well let me see are him and his girlfriend serac do you hate his girlfriend do hate him all i think you should do is sit the girl down and ask her why she hates you and ask your self 1 more question does he like you and if he does thats why the girl hates you
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