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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I asked him about it but he said that he didn't. He always hangs out with his best friend who is a girl. She borrows his boxers, goes to the movies with him ...

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...

We broke up and now I find it very difficult to trust men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend was really popular with girls and when I was with him people were always telling me that he was cheating on me. I used to get really upset about it, cry about it and was really disbelieving of them. But then when I broke up with him ...

I have never had a female talk to me the way she does without having deep feelings for me. HELP!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - I am in love with a friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would have bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. However in January I ...

I confronted her about cheating on me and now she's ignoring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Here's the story. I got an email from someone saying that my girlfriend of a year cheated on me. They told me to look at her myspace inbox in september and it would be there. This is what it said: Guy: I hope that we can still be friends aft...

I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and ...

He's taken so I told him so I wouldn't see him. anymore..because I had strong feelings for him. Now all he does is text me constantly and flirts with me! What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I fancy this guy who's taken. So that I didn't mess up anything for him and his girl, I told him that I had feelings stronger than friendship for him and therefore I couldn't see him for a while until these feelings had gone ( which I thought ...

Is it acceptable to give your number out to an ex when your in a relationship? Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I have been seeing my partner for about two years we currently live together. The other day I answered her mobile and I guy who i never heard of name appeared on the caller ID. The guy never wanted to leave a message but wanted to know who I was, i ...

He has a hard time trusting me now because I lied about liking another guy...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I need your advise. My boyfirend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have had our ups and downs, I guess like any relationship. Last year we almost broke up, I was having doubts about us and instead of talking with him and opening up I ...

Cellphone antics...mysterious calls, a lot of unusual numbers (females). Should I drop him off in 'dump' city?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - what's up with the guy im dating or am i being insecure he has numerous phone numbers yeah i check them with female's on the other side of the phone he has a habit of walking to the next room when certain calls come in.may have to drop him off in ...

He cheated on me - more than once. Should I get rid of him or see if he has changed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me when i was pregnate with his baby. I told him it was over and he began to cry and appolagize and said he wants to raise our baby together and he will always love me and he will never do it again. so i forgave him. but he ...

I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married. We so much want to be together it hurts being apart. What is your advice....

My 32 year old married boss has started giving me lifts home. I KNOW he wants to take it further!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hi, im 17 years old have a boyfriend and have a part time job as a waitress. my boss is 32 and married with kids. recently when he is giving me lifts home we have started going for a drive and ended up kissing many times and i know he wants to take ...

I'm madly in love with a married man, he's my world!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am a lady of 44 years and am madly in love with a married man. My love is immense. Even he loves me to the core but he says he has his responsibilities. And moreover he is in Delhi and am in Bangalore. We met only once and made love. We cant be ...

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...

I cheated on him and he dumped me, how can I stop loving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Ok sorry if this is kinda long I cheated on my bf 10 months ago, and he dumped me as soon as i told him. we had been going out for 8 months and he was the love of my life! We had so many good memories and good times and things i know that both o...

Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...

I love him more than my boyfriend but he's married but only for a visa, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - i have been going out with a guy for about a year and a half now, suddenly an old friend of mine and i get back in contact but it turns out he is married and we fell in love with each other knowing we always had a special feeling from before.he told ...

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him but I would NEVER do that! I'm at the end of my tether with this, what can I do to prove I'm not?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I am a 24 year old girl who is having trouble with my on off boyfriend i love him loads but he keeps breaking up with me because he thinks i am cheating on him i have never cheated and never would but he just doesnt believe a word i say, how can i ...

I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends ...

How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...

He flirted and texted girls who disliked me...just for an ego boost! How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - Hi I really appreciate any advice. i found out a few months ago that my boyfriend had been talking to girls from early on in our relationship. he had even arranged to have sex but had changed his mind. I found some of these texts and confronted him. ...

Married for three years and tempted to stray with my co-worker... Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I could really do with some advice. I am happily married - or thought I was- until I met this guy at work. He is all I can think about. I have never been tempted to stray at all in my three years of marriage but I am so tempted. I know that if i ...

She's cheated on me and I know... but she doesn't know I know - what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - My partner has cheated on me at least once, she doesn't yet know I know. What should i do, i love her to bits, but she continues to lie to me. We have a son, he is almost two, i cant see him hurt by this, but i can hardly stand to look at her....

I really think she is interested in my husband! What's my next move?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I am struggling with this girl, who lives on the same street as we do (my husband and I) and since there jas been a no smoking ban in public bars and restaurants, we hang out at home. I am usually inside but since it has been considerably warm in ...

I have a bf and 2 kids but love a married 50 year old man. How do I convince him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I am 22 with a boyfriend who i dont love but we stay together for our 2 children, for 6 months i have sseing a married guy who i am desperatly in love with, he is 50. his wife has recently caught us so our relationship is now over and i feel so is ...

She cheated on me and left me for a player! I'm still in love with her. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Please help me, i was seeing a girl and we had some really special times together we really made a connection, i fell in love with her. However from word go there was another guy constantly on her case, he's the local desperado, he's ...

Is this legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I seperated from my Internet lover after 7 years because he told me that he has 2 Korean wives of which he married in Korea then brought them back to uk to live, Is this legal?...

I cheated on her. Should I come clean before we get married?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - My fiancé and I have been together for about 13 months. 6 months ago we separated for a few days and I slept with three different woman trying to ease my suffering at the time. one of them was my ex who was always a worry of hers, one random stray ...

I think he's living with someone else. He only calls me during weekends, or when he wants to have sex. How do I let him know I'm not happy with our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - So ... I am going out with this guy ... he is nice ...few years older than me ... everything was great ... until I found out,he lives with someone. Anyway .. he told me they are breaking up .. and that she is moving out .. so I gave him a ch...

How can I break up with my married lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - what do i do? I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is awful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is ...

I feel so played by my ex gf! How can I make myself feel better about this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - My ex told her mate she was considering having a break from me in order to hook up with some guy she knows online. I confronted her about this, and she said it was girly chat and meant nothing. A week later, I'm dumped. And shes already got plans to ...

Affairs are not worth it! Thanks for everyone's advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - about a week ago i posted this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-how-to-end-it-what.html I just want to thank all those who replied to me.I know what i did was wrong but i also know now that i have to live with the guilt. F...

Trying to date and move on--but I can't shake these strong feelings for my ex even after all that he has done. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi I am 37 year old female with 2 children, 9 and 2. I found out 8 months ago that my husband John whom I have known for 14 years had an affair whilst on a course. I immediately kicked him out. He said he loved me but was not in love with me and ...

He's been seein my mate behind my back, he has broken my heart...how could he do this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I've bin with my boyfriend for 7 years, thro out these 7 years we have always been abit rocky but always felt we was in love wiv each other.i've bin thro hell an back wiv this guy, i love the bones ov this man only to find out he's been seein my ...

I dumped him by text and ignored his calls and now --I regret it! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6382 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Ok... SO im 14, you all probably think im silly and dont no what real love is. But I went out with this lad, i hardly knew him when he asked me out, so first time i said no. He was at my school and in my year but I had never really spoke to ...

We're both married and having an affair! Why should I act this stupid and why does he cheat? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - The head tells you to leave a married man while the heart doesnt. I started an affairs since this May. We both married, he with 2 kids and I dont have any. We have been classmates (part time study)for 1 year and suddenly he wrote the mail a...

Should I follow my mind or my heart after my husband cheated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - What should i follow,my mind or my heart? My mind tells that i have to leave my husbnd for the cheat he did in our relationship. but my heart tells that i have to give him another chance for the sake of our marriage life..Im confused...any advice ...

Found out she was kissing another guy. Is this why she keeps asking for "breaks"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend started dating at the end of our 9th grade year, but the next year she moved 2 hours away. Since then we have still been together and in about 2 and a half weeks it will be 3 years since we started dating. Recently though she ...

Our marriage hit a rough patch and I cheated! Should I tell my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my husband is overseas hes been gone for 10 months and we were constantly fighting and he was always accusing me of cheatin on him and then my brother died and all he did was fight with me and i just couldnt take it anymore and i met a guy who was ...

How do I drop a hint to my married co-worker, that I really him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I work with a manager who is about 48 yrs old. I like him a lot for his maturity, confidence, and sincere pride in his job and life. I'm a 20 yr old girl, but feel like he is someone I could get along really well with. I don't know if he likes me ...

I've been cheating on my boyfriend... what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - i am not in love with my boy friend anymore and have been seeing someone else behind his back what should i do ...

We love each other to bits but I'm desperate for a child and she is totally against it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. We both said we love each other and are planning to share an apartment together. We have talked about other things in the short term and the long term. The problem we have is probably one of the ...

I've just recently caught my partner cheating and have thrown him out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I've just recently caught my partner cheating and have thrown him out. He now says it was a big mistake and wants us to work it out. i have children from a previous relationship and they are refusing to be in the same space as him and dont like him ...

I really don't know what I should do, should I cheat or keep suffering???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about 5 months officially we were casually seeing each other for about 4 months previous, we started out as friends but there was loads of sexual chemistry between us all the time. When we first slept with each other it ...

He and this girl mate are taking a holiday together...I trust him but I don't trust her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Ok, well I've been cheated on in 2 of my previous 3 relationships and the third told me straight out that it was all a lie and that he never loved me. I have a bf now but he's planning to go on holiday with his best guys mate and best girl mate. I ...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month ...

We love each other but he needs to put a stop to the wedding to this other gal. How do we do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - have been in relationship with a gentleman but he is in a relationshp with a woman and he intended to marry her and gone to see his parent and because of me he want to stop the relationship and marriage between them, please we want to know how to ...

He is so possesive, accused me of cheating, and then went and cheated himself!!! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi!Im a married woman with my bf for almost 6 years. When we were gf bf he cheated on me and it really hurts. since i love him so much i forgive him. He always telling me a bad words,he insist me that i cheated him where in fact i didnt. When we ...