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*ello
writes:have been in relationship with a gentleman but he is in a relationshp with a woman and he intended to marry her and gone to see his parent and because of me he want to stop the relationship and marriage between them, please we want to know how to go by it and what to tell the ladies parent to break-up the relationship. because it been a difficult thing to do please help us because we are really in love.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Is he not a man who can speak his mind, and make decision for himself? Are you SURE that he even wants to marry you? Perhaps he is telling you lies so that you continue to see him? If he really wants to end the relationship, then he is a man, so he can end it.
The only other thing I can think of is for the two of you to run away together and escape to be married in private. Elope. If he is not willing then he is not serious about you.
-FBK
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 Thank goodness this happened before he got married! He just needs to tell the truth, that he no longer wants to marry her. I'm not sure what the customs are in Ghana but I'm sure no one would expect him to follow through with the marriage if he doesn't want to. Whether just saying he has changed his mind is enough, so he doesn't have to bring you into the picture, is something he has to decide. But if he can break it off that way would be less hurtful to his intended I'm sure. Good luck and I hope things go smoothly for you guys.
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