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female
age
41-50,
*ro
writes:Hi!Im a married woman with my bf for almost 6 years. When we were gf bf he cheated on me and it really hurts. since i love him so much i forgive him. He always telling me a bad words,he insist me that i cheated him where in fact i didnt. When we got married his fmly and my fmly didnt know. Only my sister and my sister's husbnd did know that we got married. One day the brother of my husbnd came in my rent house together wd his gf. We've talk and accidentally the gf of my brther told m that my husbnd,(bf as they know..)had gf outside the phils. I was so hurt and it was end with the argument btwen me and my husbnd. He admit it but he blamed me all why he did that things because he do believe that i hv an affair wd smone. He is so possisve and my fmlies knws that as well as my friend. I dicided to end this rltionship and move on my life.. Am i ryt wd my dcsion? Please advice....thanks
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 You are absolutely in the right on this. People often accuse their partners of cheating when in fact it what they are thinking about doing. He doesn't sound like he is the slightest remorseful for his actions so it will happen over and over again. Dump him, you deserve so much better. Good luck dear.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (23 May 2007):
 You're definitely right with this decision. If he doesn't love and respect you enough not to cheat on you, why should you waste your time on him? Getting defensive, placing blame, and accusing a partner of things is a surefire sign that they are cheating. You made the right decision.
DV1
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