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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I need your advise. My boyfirend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have had our ups and downs, I guess like any relationship. Last year we almost broke up, I was having doubts about us and instead of talking with him and opening up I started talking with others and lied to him about this. I never had an affair but I did lie about fancying someone else and texting him, we almost broke up. He has struggled to trust me ever since. And now I have lied again, about money this time... I feel very insecure about money and I didn't think he would understand. What do I do now? I feel guilty and want to come clean but if I do I'm scared that he will think that I've been lieing about other things! Will he understand my reasons for doing so?
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reader, DV1  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 If you keep lying to him, you're proving him right. Why are you so afraid to look himin the eyes and tell him how you feel? He's your partner, and he deserves that much!
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reader, willem  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 well atleast u know why hes not putting all hes trust in u ... well its not the end of the world and we all are human so its up 2 u how 2 handle cause u know him best
maybe this picture will help .......can u remember when u
did something wrong and your parents found out and it was raely bad and afterwords the whole truth comes out and u cant face either of them......... then as the dust settles
and u say sorry and try 2 xplain why u did it...... then u slowly builed that trust back and u exatly know how to work with your mom and dad each in thier seperate ways - this is exatly the same ... come clean and know that trust take time 2 b build thats why u must protect it when its there
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