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writes:Ok, well I've been cheated on in 2 of my previous 3 relationships and the third told me straight out that it was all a lie and that he never loved me. I have a bf now but he's planning to go on holiday with his best guys mate and best girl mate. I don't like his girl mate coz she's always coming onto him, like play fighting and stuff, but at the same time she treats him like crap. I'm so uncomfortable about this, specially as he booked his plane ticket etc before telling me and I only got to know so soon coz I made him tell me. I just don't know what to do, coz our relationship is pretty stable. I trust him but I don't trust his girl mate either.Thing is, when he slept over once before he woke me up at like 7am and said he was going to see her. I know he wouldn't do anything with her, but he's making excuses as to why I can't go too.... please help..
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 "Trust" means he would have WANTED you there, and would have made efforts to bring you along. Why is he going with another couple? Are they having threesomes or something? Red flags dear. You are being played by him AND her.
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reader, Dinkie +, writes (24 May 2007):
i think that if u trust him then u shud try not to worry abt this. i understand that you dont like her but if your relationship is stable then nothing will happen coz he wont let it. he might just not want you to go because h wants time with all his mates on his own so try not to get paranoid abt him not takin u with him
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reader, cd206 +, writes (23 May 2007):
 Really if you trust your boyfriend absolutely then it shouldn't matter whether you trust this girl. It takes two to cheat and if you're sure your boyfriend won't then you have nothing to worry about.
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reader, gem111 +, writes (23 May 2007):
Honestly i dont want to sound mean but why do you trust this guy, alarm bells ring lots and i would not trust him at all. My advice is get out now before u get hurt.
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