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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He slept with his ex.... Now she says shes pregnant!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for three years now ,he loves me and i also do. Lately we have a problem which is fading my love for him but he still loves me The problem is he saw his ex girlfriend and due to lust he slept with her, and n...

I'm losing my boyfriend because I find it so hard to trust him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Plz help me! My boyfriend of nine months has just split up with. He says its because he's been unhappy for a while as I have trouble trusting him. This is due to my past relationships and his background as a cheat. I love him more than anything in ...

Was I right to forgive him so easily ? I cant now get the image of his cheating out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years, and have had our ups and downs like most couples do......... Lately a lot of things have come out into the open as he has had a tendency to bottle things up and try to handle them ...

Im having an affair with a younger guy for 3 months, not sure if he wants something more permanent ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm ...

Im in love with a married man, I know hes unhappy with his wife, but people are telling me to stay away!!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. I've had so many ppl tell me to stay away from him..that he will never leave his wife. But he is so unhappy with her. He only married her because he thought that was what was right for their child. They do NOT love ...

Please tell me how to forgive a cad who has cheated on me three times

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - ive been with the father of my child for three years 3 days ago i found out he cheated on me with a girl who is under age he slept with her twice we were trying to deal with it and i asked him have you ever cheated on me before and he said no then ...

My daughter wont talk to her father after his affair, but I want her to talk to him, how should I tackle this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - hi there please help how can i get my daughter to commuinicate with her father.? she has refused to talk to him since she was made a part of his affair againsnt me (he took her along with him while he had his last affair on me) she now feels she ow...

I cheated on my girl but I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6681 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - i kissed another girl, and my girlfriend broke up with me.we were in love and can be again.i regret what i ve done and am ready to try and be happy again.how do i get her back.how do i win her trust.or change her perspective. x ...

Having problems with my married man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Falling for a married man - how not to? So...... He is married I know (wedding ring), but he never says 'we did xxxx' as in he and his wife did something. We've gotten close over the last 6 months (emails and coffee or lunch, but nothing more...

We crossed the line of just being roommates, she has a BF but I like her alot and think shes likes me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6682 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - ok, so i live with this girl, right? which complicates things a lot. she's a good friend of mine, but a little over a week ago we crossed over the friendship barrier and she cheated on her boyfriend with me. we decided time apart was the best ...

I kissed someone else and realise my mistake, what can I do to win back my girl ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6682 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - i kissed another girl a few weeks ago and my girlfriend found out.i regret it so much and have absolutely learnt my lesson.but, my girlfriend left me and said that she couldnt be with me at the moment.i desperately want her back.what can i do....

A friend and I hooked up... but is the attraction for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6683 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - One of my best friends and I met awhile back. The catch is, we both initially had mutual feelings there for each other at that point, as I had liked her a lot for a while before we ever spoke, and so did she. But we both were in relationships, so ...

It's been a few years, but I still miss the friend who cheated with my ex-husband! Do I try to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6682 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Okay, this is a Jerry Springer one. But I am for real, and I would appreciate an outsider's perspective. I was with my kid's father, "Rob" for 5 years, and I was best friends with "Jenny" for probably 10 years. We were like sisters, I have nev...

My husband cheats and I am in love with another man (who has a gf) So how do I know my other man is really interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I am married. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He is a great provider, however, the women that he is involved with over time do not give me no respect. This has bee going on for 17 plus years that we have been married. I have fallen ...

Am I paranoid for thinking this means he cheated ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello My b/f and i dont see each other every night..every few days..so when we do sleep together--the first time is kind of fast if you know what i mean and then the 2nd time is usually longer..last night the first time was longer than usual and w...

I didn't want to cheat, but it was a drunkin' kiss.....now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6684 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Recently I went on an all girls holiday for 4 nights away and before I went my boyfriend said that he had no reason to worry that I would cheat on him because he trusted me completely and knew I wouldnt cheat, anyway while we were away all of my ...

I told him I cheated, but hes still living with me but not talking to me felt for sure we would split up, not sure how what going on!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Right, here goes! I recently cheated on my boyfriend of 16 months, everything was perfect and we had just got back off a holiday together where we got on really well. I had to tell him what i had done, at first he didn't let it sink in, it was only ...

I promised him I wouldn't cheat again, but I did anyway! Should I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - So here's the thing. I met my boyfriend over a year ago at a time where I have just gotten out of my first relationship. I was devastated that things ended between me and what I thought was my first love. My current boyfriend helped me through ...

I snooped into his email and found he's gotten another girl pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6684 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I think I already know what I should do, but I just need some opinions! I am a mother of three, my youngest is 2. I have been in and out of a relationship with their dad for a long time. He left us in January of this year and after a couple of ...

The whole town knows.... but how do I get solid proof my hubby is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there ...

My friend has the perfect girl and cheats on her...Should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

25 July 2006 (M) - i'm close too my friends girlfriend and shes really nice pretty much the perfect girl. she thinks the world of her boyfriend and believes he would never cheat on her, the only problem is that he does all the time. shes often asked me if i would tell ...

Once a cheater, always a cheater, and I'm a bloody fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I met my partner 5 years ago. He had recently ended his marriage and was very honest about the fact that he had an affair with a woman for 4 years during his marriage. He ended it and said that she took it badly, but he didnt love her. 3 months ago ...

My lies are catching up to me, but I'm not brave enough to be honest

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I would like your help and advise, or just even your opinion would be gratfull. I am 28, married for 10yrs, and a have a 8yr old son. 2 yrs ago i went into a chat site, all the info i added was false, name, age, looks, everything..After a few ...

So hurt by my husband's philandering, that I can't show my love for him... so he cheated again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I'm married. My husband cheated three times that I know of. The first time left me with so much of wounds. Because of this I am not doing what I should like making love and showing love. That's why he cheated again. Now we are at a point that we ...

I slept with a friend, who's with my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I've just done one of the stupidest things ever. I made one of my best friends through a guy who cheated on us. I know he's bad; I really do, but I get on with him quite well. I always have done, but the other night I was in his house and he kept ...

He says nothing's happening, but his actions say otherwise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - My husband works in a pub. He came home and told me a girl that goes in there is always chatting him up. When I asked him if he was seeing her he told me it was nothing to do with me. Now I'm getting phone calls at set times twice a week, on nigh...

Is there a difference between cheating with sex and cheating without it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

25 July 2006 (M) - I see on this forum that an affair is defined as a relationship in which the following two things occur: 1) The relationship exists unbeknownst to a partner; 2) There is sex involved. In addition I see this term "emotional affair", which impl...

My husband had an emotional affair, so what is missing in our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married for nearly 14 years to my husband. We have had the normal ups and downs, but we have made it through stronger than ever. Several months ago my husband had an emotional affair. I was absolutely devastated. My heart...

My BF cheated on me with my friend! I'm angry and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have always been against serious relationships because I always seem to get hurt. Well about a year and a half ago I was introduced to this boy and of course I didn't want a serious relationship and he did. We struggled for about 6 months a...

I want to wait until my married lover's relationship breaks up naturally...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - Iv'e been seeing a married women for 6 months. It ended 2 months ago, the phyical side of it, but we have remained friends. I love her with everything I have but am I fool for waiting until her marrige breaks up by itself?...

Never thought I'd look at another guy but this married guy makes me feel sexy and alive! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I am a 32 year old women. I have been with my husband for 14 years, 7 years non married 7 years married. My problem is that I have recently met another guy who is also married. Nothing has happened between us yet except for a snog but it is quite ...

We were going to get married, but then while on holiday he was getting messages from another woman! We talked it through but hes now not sure about me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I had been with my man for 3 and a half years. A year ago he asked me to marry him, it was the happiest day of my life. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how beautiful I was. The last year we have had to live apart because of our ...

Im very concerned over his meeting with his soon to be ex wife, she already tempted him once!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Several months ago my boyfriend left a long and abusive marriage to move from the USA to be with me. We met up last summer and although I had a boyfriend, we emailed and gave up our relationships to be together. His wife, who is much more beauti...

Started cheating on my boyfriend... now I have strong feelings for both guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for 6 years. He and I have gone through a lot. He is always by my side when I am in trouble. And I stood by his side when his company is in bad shape.. I started cheating on my bf 2 years ago. I met someone o...

Im so sorry I cheated and feel awful, but he didt show me the love I wanted, what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - In a bit od a situation nere and i feel awful for it, i can't stop crying, thing is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, we were good at the start and for the past about 8 months he has no urge to have sex with me, this on ...

I think my mum is sleeping with my boyfriend!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - I need some serious advice, I think my Mum might be sleeping with my boyfriend! The other night, I went round to my Mum's and she answered the door in her dressing gown looking pretty flustered. I wanted some company, as my boyfriend was 'w...

My boyfriend's sister caught me cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend had a party at his house a few days ago and loads of people stayed over at the end of the night my bf wa pretty drunk and fell asleep on his bed i was still wide awake and went and sat with his best mate downstairs, we've always been ...

He had an affair with his 21-year old niece and it is destroying me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 11 years.After my second child was born my husband never showed me any affection. We have not had sex, not even a cuddle in 8 years of our marriage.Both of his parents died of cancer within 4 weeks of eachother at the ...

How do we end our email affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Well I've been having an e-mail affair for a few months with a close person in my life you could say he is related to me the problem is I don't want to screw up our lives we both have familys the thing is I know we both love each other but what can ...

My boyfriend has trust issues and I validated his concerns

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I got drunk at a friends birthday party and ended up cheating-kissing one of my friends, the guy didnt tell anyone, the next day i couldnt really remember, but i told my boyfriend what happened. He has not really ever trusted me that much and this ...

Whose child is this? My husband's on the 'one night stand' guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I have never been one to do something so terrible as cheat on the one I love, until a few months ago. I play it back what should have happened, why it didn't, what to do now. My husband and I have been together for X amount of years and have an X ...

Is my boyfriend cheating? Tell me what you think..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - is my boyfriend cheating? i have been with my boyf for 2months have known each other for 7 months and i realli like him but lately im getting very suspicious of him he as always got his mobile on silent and reads messages so i cant see what th...

Why cant I forget that he slept with his ex behind my back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he has now moved in with me. Although i love him very much, and he is mostly with me.I stress all the time when he goes round to see his kids. They have 2 children 16 and 19,so he sees his ex wife a fair ...

We stopped having sex, then I found him with another woman, I dont care he cheated just want to feel wanted!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. He is 30 and I am 27. In the beginning our relationship was great but then we hit a couple of ruff pathes financially and it took a lot out of us. He stopped having sex with me but I though...

Im becoming over suspicious of my boyfriend what do I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I am a suspicious type of person. My boyfriend has his own apartment but usually stays at his mother's house--just wanted to give u that info. Last week--i look at the condom drawer and we havent used any in a while--we have two sets..there were...

In love with my bestfriends boyfriend and I'm married.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend. I am 24 years old and married and I am deeply in love with my best friend's boyfriend. They have been together for a little over a year, and we have had a sexual relationship, for just about as long. Be...

I fancy my boyfriends mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - hi, iv'e been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a 11 mounth old baby,the problem is i fancy his best mate and i think he fancys me.when i see him he always make eye contact and he sometimes stares right into my eyes,if i talk to him he seems...

I kissed another girl more than once behind my girls back, she ditched me, how can I get her back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - i recently kissed another girl on two separate nights while out drinking.my gf found out.she was so angry and hurt and called it off.i really want to be with her, and she still has feelings for me, we meet up and she lets me try and make it up to ...

My ex wants to cheat on his girlfriend... with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Out of the blue my ex called and just wants to chat. We were together a long time....ten years and split two years ago.He has a girlfriend but tells me that he is unhappy in the relationship and says he will leave her when a current legal matter ...

I accidentally caught my boyfriend drinking with another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend has a face phone and sometimes his phone accidentally calls people. Last night his phone called me, my voice mail captured up him talking and laughing with some girl. When i asked him what he did that night he said he was with his ...