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writes:my boyfriend had a party at his house a few days ago and loads of people stayed over at the end of the night my bf wa pretty drunk and fell asleep on his bed i was still wide awake and went and sat with his best mate downstairs, we've always been quite close anyway and we were all cuddled up under a duvet talking and then somehow ended up kissing eachother! neither of us initiated it we just sort of kissed at the same time and then a bit later we were kissing again and one thing led 2 another i let him finger me then i started giving him a blow job when my bf's younger sister appeared out of nowhere with her best mate and they run off in a fit of giggles...my bf and his sis hate eachother they dont get on at all and barely talk so do you think she will ever tell him what was going on??i know it was wrong whatt we were doing andd i love my boyfriend more than anything but he just doesnt give me enough attention sometimes and his best mates a bit older so he's more mature i can always go and talk to him about anything now everytime we see eachother were always kissing and touching eachother when were on r own even though he has a girlfriend too. i can see what a mess this situation is and how bad it'l be if we get found out but i cant seem 2 stop it seems so easy we were close before n always huggin n whisperin n stuff so my bf doesnt even notice anything. can we get away with this for much longer??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): Usually, I'll have my scold-fest, but it's overwhelming really. So I'll say this: you don't love your bf. You just think you do. It's a common error/mistake a lot of people have. Love is relative to the people involved, yes, but love incorporates everything including sex. Sex in love is an art form. Either that be a quick bang or a long sensual kiss followed by massages and love making. As an art form inside a relationship with a bf/gf/wife/husband, this becomes a part of love.
The 'best-mate' of your bf, isn't a good-mate. I pity your bf for not having the opportunity to meet geniune people, where honor in brotherhood tops everything in friendship. Thus, the advice is this: leave your bf, go with the guy you cheated with. You don't have to tell you now-bf anything. Just make sure you tell him the very least that his best-mate isn't a good-mate.
That's it.
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