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writes: i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm like at cooking and other household skills.i know all of this is wrong but i feel myself falling in love with him.not sure how to tell if he feels the same.before i thought it maybe he's looking for a friend with benefits,but he seems so loving and close for it to be just that,how can i tell.its been going on 3months now.i know he doesnt have much money.perhaps he's staying at home for financial reasons,i dont want to ask him to many questions just in case it spoils things between us.but he asks about my life at home.
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reader, omo +, writes (30 July 2006):
go for it champ.. ask him the only way you'll know about my life at home is by you being part of it
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reader, Thachorie +, writes (30 July 2006):
 He asks about your home life ask about his, i dont htink it is very fair on your partner if your relationship is on the rocks shouldnt you be trying to fix it not having an affair? If i were you id think about which of them you want ask your lover if he wants to carry it on with you because if he doesnt then you may throw away a perfectly good relationship. Its up to you who do you want and which of them will have you, its time to find out.
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 talk to him tell him how you feel juat go ahead and ask him what you wana find out maybe he does want more but is to scared to tell you incase you end it i would find out and than go from there
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