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writes: hi thereplease helphow can i get my daughter to commuinicate with her father.? she has refused to talk to him since she was made a part of his affair againsnt me (he took her along with him while he had his last affair on me) she now feels she owes me her loyiality as much as i admire her for this i worry in the future that she may need him.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 Well I think she needs time to notice that her parents are independent human beings with the right to be alone or decide to end up their affective relationships in some ways, maybe you should tell her that you are happy to be free and that it is anormal situation many couples go through, maybe you all 3 should go for a coffee together and explain together with your partner that you have a good natural relationship after the affair and that the only thing you want is her happiness and a good realitionship with each other, it may sound hard to you now but I think it would help the problem to solve
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reader, finchy  +, writes (29 July 2006):
 i think the best thing to do is let her decide, i am 17 and i dont talk to my dad. He is a bully and an alcoholic. I already decided years ago when me and my mum moved away i would have nothing to do with him and i have. If one day i do need him i will go to him but he lost my trust a long time ago. So my point is if she dosen't want to talk to him you shouldnt make her. xx
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