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writes: My husband works in a pub. He came home and told me a girl that goes in there is always chatting him up. When I asked him if he was seeing her he told me it was nothing to do with me. Now I'm getting phone calls at set times twice a week, on nights I used to go out. If I stay in, he doesn't come home till 4 in morning. He told me if she chased him long enough he would go with her. Now 6 months later, calls have just stopped. When asked him again if he was with her he said no. I just don't believe him. I've asked him to prove nothing happened but says doesn't need to. I met her other day when was with him and she ran away. He took off the other way. When asked him why he did it he said didn't see her. When I mention her name he won't talk and walks out the room. Reply to this Question
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Why are you sticking with a guy who tells you that sort of crap? If she chases long enough, he'll leave you? Leave the dumbass first
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (25 July 2006):
 Honey hes cheating and at the same time just plainly being a brute about it.... how dare he talk to you like that and tell you its nothing to do with you and to also stay out till 4am etc... hes definately got something going on with this girl and he cant even be open to you about it. So hes not even sorry that hes doing it. You get a few types of cheats, those that do it "by accident" those that look for it, some that dont care if thier partner hurts, some that really thought they wouldnt get caught, some that cant believe they cheated and are sorry and so on.. your guy just simply does not care!!! Hes not sorry, he wont even admit it, hes got no value for your feelings whatsoever. The longer you allow him to behave like this he will carry on until hes totally destoyed any dignity you have. Kick him out, its not like hes come to you begging for forgiveness, hes quite happy to let it carry on and just simply more or less saying to you just put up with it... be strong he doesnt care, its hard i know, but you deserve better than that, pack his stuff and kick him the hell out... change the locks if you have to.. hes treating you like dirt change the tables and do it to him before you are comletely and emotionally drained, no one should have to live like that, hes not worth it he really isnt, you may love him, but thats not enough babe, he doesnt respect you,you need to get yourself out, or he will continue to make you feel crap. You really need to leave him, I hope you have family that you can turn to to help support you or friends as it will be a rough road, but you can do it, you deserve to be treated with respect, not how he is treating you.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): leave him. it isnt worth it to deal with that. hes cheating ive experienced it all before. i know how it works. and it hurts. leave before youre broken completely.
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