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writes: Right, here goes! I recently cheated on my boyfriend of 16 months, everything was perfect and we had just got back off a holiday together where we got on really well. I had to tell him what i had done, at first he didn't let it sink in, it was only until i questioned him about it where it started to sink in what i have done, I have no excuses for what i did apart from the fact i felt i was being treated like a friend not a girlfriend and we hadn't slep together in months, so the candle was burning out a little in my view. Anyway he said he needs time to think about it, thing is though we live together! He won't sleep in the same bed as me, he won't talk to me, which to me is strange, i was so sure we would split up straight away and that would be that, so i'm a lil confused! You think i should back off and not speak to him for a while? or move out for a bit? i just dont know what to do! anyone has this reaction before when they told thier partner they were a cheat?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 It seems to me that you want it to be over. I don't understand. Why don't you move out because you obviously don't care if he left you or not because you never expressed love for him or regret for your actions. Cheating is what it is as I cheated on my ex. I think you should move out and give him his time to think. I honestly don't think you are interested in staying in the relationship anyway. Go get yourself sorted out as he needs to do the same. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): yes i have been in this situation,with my partner of 15 years,i told him what i had done and he took it like it was a everyday thing.then i realized after months of trying to work it out that he was only with me for convience.he knows i wont change as i have gone on to cheat again,we both still live in the same house,but in different beds.if someone had done it to me i would of gone mad.he probably realises that he was partly to blame for neglecting me in the first place.
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