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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What did she break-up with me out of the blue? Ex bf, new dude or was she not done playing the field yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I am a 44 yr old man, got dumped over a month ago, by my gf of 13 months. she was the love of my life. we were in-separable, did everything together, intimacy was awesome, I felt it was for her also. hours upon hours of conversation about anything ...

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I ...

What should I do to stop his passive-aggressive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Well, I need some opinion and advice me please on what should I do? My boyfriend and me been together for 5 years and things went rocky lately, he broke up with me 3 days ago, before he break up with me, he'd told me several times about his ...

How do I heal after all his emotional abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - I recently broke up with my husband. He manipulated me for years, but it was so cleverly done I didn't realise. It's only since we split up that I realised. He spent 12 years making me feel bad about myself, and in the end I couldn't answer the door ...

How do I sort this out if he's not talking to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My bf of four yrs, last novemeber he moved away to work since then ive only seen him about 5 times this year, ive asked him many times if he was with somebody else and his reply was No.... anyway we have have always spoke on the phone or via text ...

I know he isn't God's gift to women like he says, but I can't seem to get away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3677 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in a very emotionally abusive relationship. I knew its abusive cause 1. He often threatens to break up when i get angry or talk back or irritate him by calling him even once a day 2. Ignores me for days and then talks as if...

I yearn for true love, harmony and happiness, again. But how? Is it too much to ask for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I miss my ex so much. Me and him broke up almost 10 years ago. We both moved on and I got married, divorced and contacted him, and he got in and out of several relationships, but today he doesn´t seem to be interrested. He was my first real...

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a coup...

Why would you leave the best relationship you ever had over a surmountable problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hey guys, This past Friday my boyfriends of a little over a year broke up with me. Despite my embarrassing pleas he would not reconsider. The reason he gave for the breakup was that despite my having been the best girlfriend he had ever had and...

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad ...

Why can't I stop thinking about my ex ever since I found out that he is engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I just found out that my exboyfriend just got engaged. We've been separated for about 2 years and 6 months now. We were together for 11 years and I broke up our engagement because I got fed up with his lies and cheating. He tried to get back to ...

Seeing a picture of my ex with a new girlfriend makes me feel like I've been punched in the Tummy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 8 years. We broke up around 18 months ago, it wasnt a nice break up but we cut all contact and havent spoken to him since. He pops into my head every now and then but thats all. A few months after we seperated i met someone ...

I feel like I would be killing a cute lovable puppy saying "no" to him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - I have been single for 4 years now but have got to a point where yes I miss companionship but I am not desperate. I recently met a guy online, we talked for about 2 weeks and met up. Ive now seen him couple of times and he is lovely, he is 3 years ...

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationshi...

I told him I wanted him out of my life but he won't move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I'm back, some of you probably read my firt question and i must say i got some great advice, so here we go again. Just a reminder of what i had going on, I had been questioning about if i had fallen out of love with my guy, after countless trips to ...

I need to end this unstable relationship without anybody getting hurt physically?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - Hey, so I'm having a big issue here in my relationship. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months, and I'm starting to think that things are not going to get better. I met this guy on a dating website, right after my boyfriend and I of 11 months ...

How do I cope with my alcoholic boyfriend while I gear up to leaving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I think my boyfriend of 6 years is an alcoholic. We met when I was 18 and he was 20, and we've both always been social drinkers and have grown up together in the pub culture. He has always drunk maybe 6 times a week, but not enough to get drunk on ...

Am I moving on too quickly, rebounding, or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

22 November 2014 (M) - Hi, it's been three long years since I've been here, but last time I was here I was talking about possibly getting with my lab partners let's call her "Vicki". We were in a relationship for the past 3 years and it just ended 3 months ago. We e...

Stupid for wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3683 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I am stupid for wanting my husband back after 23 years of marriage? He left 7 months ago and said it was over, moved to another state, had a fling, that didn't work out. What ever happened really messed with him He thought about trying to work it ...

Do we let this go, not being invited to fiance's grand child's 1st birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - My fiancé's daughter had their first child and it's my fiancé's first grand child. My fiancé is divorced. His daughter is close to her mother and her in-laws. I was not invited to the baby shower that the daughter's grandma (her mother's mother)...

My boyfriend is not speaking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Hey guys, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, it has been a relatively good relationship until we hit a speed bump about two months ago when we started fighting a lot about the same thing over and over again. He ap...

How do I put my foot down so he knows his behavior won't be tolerated anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years (except a 4 month break) and I'm to the point that I'm not happy. I feel lonely and neglected. I broke up with him 5 months ago because he'd started neglecting me, wouldn't contact me and made ...

Am I wrong for always thinking of him? even though he's hurt me so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend just broke up AGAIN for good, he was the first guy I've ever loved and it hurts like hell. But theres a story behind it all..the first time we broke up was around March after spring break where he started talking to some ...

My ex is ill so I haven't told him I'm in a new relationship yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Ok, cutting a long story short, a few months ago my ex who still has feelings for me became very ill (we're still friends and have contact at his request). Around the same time I met someone else who's ex treated him terribly and left him/cheated on ...

I wish that life would give me a break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - I need help, a friendly advice.. I have lost so much faith and strenght in life. I have been through a lot the past 15 years in my life. less than ten years ago, I started my dream education together with my ex boyfriend. But we broke up ( ...

Why would he change his FB status? Could we be friends? I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - So almost seven months ago, around easter I broke up with my ex because our relationship had too many people involved trying to cause problems on top of us already having our own. He then randomly messaged me in august just saying sup? I tried to be ...

Why do people automatically assume I'm a bumb?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

17 November 2014 (M) - Hi all, I'm somewhat of a professional gambler, and I was wondering why is it so socially unacceptable to be a gambler? To make things clear, I'm not a problem gambler, I've been doing it for a living for the better part of 10 years. I'm a poker ...

I am heatbroken there was no compromise or compassion!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks. Things were going so well until yesterday evening. He invited me to a wedding and I gladly accepted the invitation (the bride and groom wanted to meet me too) The wedding was a sunrise one so it ...

We have broken up but I know he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, ...

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first bo...

How can I get rid of this constant fear that I've done something (unintentional) that could make him mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 November 2014 (?) - Hi there! So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now.. And he has this I don't know what's the proper word, attitude? Where like if he's mad at me, he doesn't tell me why or he'll just treat me really coldly.. The thing is I try...

How long should no contact continue for her to make up her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 November 2014 (M) - Please, please help! Im going thru so much pain right now. Insecurity grew in me, i read her private messages, we ended up in a fight. I called her a lier and broke up. Please read, this why i read her private messages http://www.dea...

What can I say or do in order to keep her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 November 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 11 months now. I am 18 and she is 17. I am currently a freshman in college and she is a senior in high school. Throughout these initial few months in college, things have gone pretty well. I only ...

Text to an ex? I quit smoking!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Ok so a guy I was seeing broke things off when he realised I smoked (really anti smoking as a close family member died) and he couldn't be with a smoker. A bit on I am thinking if sending him the below txt, thoughts? Hey, I just wanted to sen...

He did something I wouldn't have expected and now I don't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3690 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Okay, well my boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago. And we were barley talking but then last night he texts me and tells me he still loves me its just we can date anymore right now because something bad might happen go him or me. Obviously I wa...

Divorced women: Given another chance with your ex, would you still choose to leave your man and get divorced? Should I have to give up on my dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - To all who divorced their husbands during their 30s and has grown old enough to look back on your life, do you regret your decision and wished you had tried harder (not the ones who were in an abusive relationship, just the ones who had a ...

I fear my ex is going to die of his drug use!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3692 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I just ended a relationship with a guy who was going through a really dark time - he was on drugs, getting involved with lots of shady people, and he became verbally aggressive with me. That was the final nail in the coffin, making m...

Am I over reacting or overpossessive? Should I give him some time or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Dear cupids. I love a guy.We met online he is from pakistan nd am an indian. Initially we were friends then one day he proposed me that he wants to marry me , the other day he said that he will think about me but hes not doing any promise as hes not ...

I'm angry on the way he thinks about single mothers, what shall I do? Is is possible to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Hi, There is a guy whom I meet on training and at the end of the training we have a party and we meet there suddenly we separate with out exchanging address I was just thinking about him and rely upset for not having his address. Next day after th...

I feel he is almost trying to control me and keep me on a leash while he makes up his mind if I'm "worthy" enough for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - So my ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. We're long distance, had disagreements on a lot of things that we couldn't compromise on and decided to end it. Since then we've kept in contact and at times it feels like we're still together. The idea of ...

I can't leave him until December. How do I stay strong until then?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I am coming here because I need advice on how to stay strong. I feel like writing this all out may help as well as receiving advice from others. I have been with a guy for seven years and he is leaving me for the same woman he has left me for ...

We were friends then dating and then he broke it off and I can't get over it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3697 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I started talking to a boy 6 months ago and we became, very quickly, best friends to the extent we ate every meal together and saw each other every minute of the day before chatting through other means when not together. He confessed to me after the ...

Is it common for men to promise marriage and not go through with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - Do you think it is common for men to promise marriage and then not follow through? I was with my ex for 8 years. After about three years he would say: we'll get married when we get home from travelling and settle in. Then it was: we'll get married ...

I still have all of these emotions for her, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

7 November 2014 (M) - Hi, I am a 19-year-old Briton in need of some advice. Recently I got back in contact with an old crush of mine after having not spoken to each other in just over three years. We didn't meet in person until a month or two of having messaged ...

Actions Are Louder Than Words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - My latest "best friend in life" and I have been in a committed relationship going on 19 months. We addressed the "wondering eye" syndrome and his "friends on facebook", and I finally had told him that since he said, "I will never hurt you", I told ...

I want to talk about things with my ex but this could jeopardize my current relationship, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

4 November 2014 (M) - My wife left me over 20 years ago and took my children with her. This all happened while I was out at work one day and I've never really come to terms with it. I think I understand why she did it, but her actions were too drastic and I feel we could ...

I'm bitter about my rich ex-husband, while I don't have much money. Will karma get him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - I don't wish anything really bad to happen to my ex-husband, but some Kharma would be nice... My ex and I divorced about two years ago. He was not a good husband-treated me very badly and basically walked out on our son and I when he decided he wa...

Ex hasn't picked up his things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3701 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I broke up a little over three weeks ago, we broke up once before about 4 months ago. Regardless he has been utterly cold and nasty. We have an apartment together, and he has been living at home since the split. He came once to get most of ...

Does my ex miss me or is he just trying to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

2 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I broke up in march. he jumped straight into a relationship with a new girl a few weeks later and not long later she moved in with him, everything happened so quickly it destroyed me as we have been through a lot in the 6 years we have ...

Does she regret the break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3702 days ago

2 November 2014 (M) - We were together for 7 months then broke up (about 3 weeks ago), I've gone no contact with her. Within a week after a break up she got into rebound relationship with complete opposite guy who was always been there for her.... She has just text...