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26-29,
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writes:Okay, well my boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago. And we were barley talking but then last night he texts me and tells me he still loves me its just we can date anymore right now because something bad might happen go him or me.Obviously I was curious and wanted to know what he was talking about so I asked and he called me. He was a wreck. I can tell he was worrying and upset, I was like okay so what are you talking about. He said its just disguisting think ofssomething disgusting and I was like did you do anything with another girl and he said not physically.I asked him what he meant and he said when his friend fell asleep he got on his computer and went into the bathroom. He said he went on a website which led to a Skype call with a girl and he said she showed him her boobs and he showed her his dick. And I guess he was completely naked and he showed her his butt? I don't know he was acting weird maybe he's in to that freaky shit. Ha. But anyway I guess he started masturbating on camera and his face was in the webcam as well. But I guess 2 minutes later her webcam went to a different webcam(I don't know of it was the hackers or not) but then from the persons webcam it started playing a video of him just now masturbating. So I don't know if it was a fake girl the whole time or what but before the girl went away she asked for his email and he gave it to her and so when the hacker showed the video of my ex masturbating on can he also added a list of names of some of my exs friends on Facebook, he said he was going to send the video to the 6 people and I was one of them. He said if my ex were to block him he would post the video on a YouTube porn thing? Idk. But my ex blocked him last night. And nothing happened at all. No video was sent yet. So I don't think it will be. Well I hope not..but keep in mind he didn't cheat because we were already broken up.But anyway. We aren't back together yet, its just idk what to do ): because he was my first true love and he took my virginity. But I just feel like I don't feel the same towards him anymore.. but I don't know.. maybe I should wait a few days to see if the video is sent because if it is I don't think I can get back with him. I don't even know if I can get past the fact of him doing this. But so many guys do it.. but I don't know. Is what he did really that bad or weird? And what should I do? :(
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 November 2014):
 That sounds like a RATHER elaborate story for him to cover up his cyber-sexcapades. FACTS are, honey, HE got online and did SEXUAL things for another girl, had feelings of guilt about it. When you pressed for information he gave you that long fantastical story about cyber-blackmail. A little "too fantastical".
He may CLAIM he didn't DO anything WITH the girl, BUT he still did things FOR her. ON CAMERA.
You say SO MANY guys do this.. DOES that make it more OK? Does that mean you should say:" aww poor snookums it's OK it wasn't your fault you took your penis out to another girl and wanked online... You just couldn't help it and besides EVERYONE does it!"
I'd wish him well, and tell him that you hope he learned a lesson from all this. When you do online, is out there for all to see.
IF the story is true.... it's someone who has access to his FRIENDS-LIST who did this. Consider that.
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