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male
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26-29,
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writes:We were together for 7 months then broke up (about 3 weeks ago), I've gone no contact with her.Within a week after a break up she got into rebound relationship with complete opposite guy who was always been there for her....She has just texted me this message:"I just want to get one thing ouside my head, it's up to you if you are going to read it or not:DWhen we were together, we were talking about going outside at Sunday.. and you said, that you can (I think o.O ) only till 12:30 and I asked why and you answered it doesn't matter. I still regret not asking you deeper, because I would found out that you are going to seminar of that muscle guy (MY NOTE: I am a bodybuilding enthusiast and it was seminar of Phil Heath, who's been the world's best bodybuilder for 4 years in a row now)If you didn't say it to me because you throught, that I would think that it is more important for you than going outside with me, then I am sorry because it wouldn't be like it. I wouldn't be upset and stuff:DIt looks like a complete bullshit now, but during thinking it made quite a mess in my head:DJust wanted you to know it:D bye :)"What does this really mean?Is she really just curious?Does she want me back?Does she miss me?Does she think about me much?Does she regret the break up?How should I actually reply? o.OWe are both 17, thank you for your answers :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 I think she wanted closure and gain an understanding of what went wrong. She is also trying to confirm what she felt is right by getting a response from you. She probably found out from a third source that you went to a seminar that Sunday and she contacted you to clear a misunderstanding.
She didn't like the fact that you kept details from her. She felt unimportant. This shouldn't be a reason for break up but there must have been other issues that's causing arguments between you two. The break up was 3 weeks ago and she is with someone so it's better not to think of possibilities or what ifs. If you want to reply, you may tell her honestly why you kept that to yourself. I may guess that you were embarrassed about doing body building, you didn't like people prying into your privacy, or you wanted to stop a confrontation before it began. She didn't want you to think she was the insecure, clingy girlfriend and could handle the truth. She still cares about what you think. She is studying behavior so it helps her in interactions with boyfriends.
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