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female
age
26-29,
*ure heart
writes:Dear cupids. I love a guy.We met online he is from pakistan nd am an indian. Initially we were friends then one day he proposed me that he wants to marry me , the other day he said that he will think about me but hes not doing any promise as hes not so sure about his own life hardships what he is facing nowadays and wants some time from me. I too started to develop some sort of feelings for him as he is a nice guy nd always good to me. I started showing him that I like him nd he is something for me but I never told him directly that I love him nd wanna be him forever in my life. Now I have a feel that he is ignoring me from past 3-4 days. He said that I dont believe him nd dont even understand what he is going thorough. Today we had a fight nd I left him nd blocked my fb nd whatsapp. I asked him dont u have 1 hour for me. He said that he dont have even 1 hour for himself as he is in lots of trouble. yesterday I have given him my pic for the first time. I dont want to talk to him as I feel that he dont have an hour for me . I am now crying. But nobody cares for me.I texted him good bye forever. What to do plz tell me. Am I over reacting or overpossessive? Should I give him some time or just move on?
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reader, MSA  +, writes (12 November 2014):
 It is a nice feeling to meet someone online, click, and feel that you have found someone special who thinks the same of you. The wonders of the internet and how it's able to connect souls.This all should be a positive and happy thing. He should make you laugh, you should make him smile. You should enjoy and want to talk to each other and share your stories and experiences with each other. This is where you can dream.. talk about your future together... and try to work to make those dreams come true.It should NOT make you feel stressed, sad, in pain. The both of you have not yet met in real life. Nothing become REAL and SOLID until after you've met.. and not met once but MANY TIMES. If this guy is causing you grief and unhappiness, it's time to let go. This is not what you're looking for... at least I hope it's not what you're looking for. It's too much drama and stress that you don't need. You are young and carefree.. go out, meet people, and enjoy life! Don't hold on to a guy that makes you cry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2014): I don't want to sound harsh, but I don't think you can love someone you have never met. Maybe you should try to talk to him without blocking him and try a bit calm down. And think could you and him really be together in real life. Questions like, where would you live, do you have the same goals in life etc. need to be considered.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 November 2014):
 Hi pure heart, I would go talk to your sister or mother and ask for comfort and help here.
I think you have created a relationship that wasn't going to be able to succeed and now are struggling with dealing with the aftermath.
I would move on.
I would also be more cautious and careful online. Don't get into a relationship with someone you do not know in real life.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2014): I am sorry for what you are going through.you did not see him,you did not meet him,dont even know whether he is saying right.just concentrate on your well being first,dont put too much effort in online relations,they are not real.I know this answer is not you want to hear,but it is good for you.surround yourself with friends,family.we all been there,done that.good luck Sweetie.
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