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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was ...

What should a girl do in this situation of flirting with her friend's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Situation: Girl A has a boyfriend. Her friend Girl B "heavily flirts" with Girl A's boyfriend a couple of times, whilst talking online. The boyfriend breaks up with Girl A shortly after this [not due to the flirting, just for some other reason]. ...

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

She left me, now wants to come back, but her facebook says she in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - what to do when your girlfriend of two years leaves? her only excuses she keeps telling me is that i am controlling. we was talking she told me if i love her i would bring her stuff to her so we could start working on things. any way that has been ...

Did he want to break up with me? Why not just tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I was in a casual relationship during the last seven months. He was so happy with me and always caring. It was a long distance relationship and we knew from the beginning we cannot have something serious. I have feelings for me and i thought...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway ...

Cousin and I have been having sex but I think we need to stop

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31 October 2010 (F) - hi, i know this is going to sound weird but i need to say it. im 19 and my names summer and my second cousin sara is too. we were actually born only 3 days apart and our moms were cousins and we lived down the street from eachother so we were always ...

Do you ever get over someone you've been with for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - So my question is about love. After you have been with someone for a long time (years) and things don't work out between you two and you both move on what can you do to get yourself to stop loving, thinking about, and caring for the person that you ...

Do I leave my abusive spouse for someone who is kind and my sister used to like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I been married for 1 1/2 yrs. but been together for 4 yrs. I love him unconditionally thats why i never left him even though he chokes me and slaps me. I do the same to him too and i'm usually the one to do it first thats why i cut him some slack. I ...

I feel like I'm still in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - It's been a month since he left. He comes by once or twice a week. And talks to me every other day if don't contact him first. He says he still loves me and doesn't want to disappear from my life. He insists on paying the electric bill even though ...

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...

How do you get somebody OFF your mind?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I understand this might be a bit of a strange question and hard to answer so any types of responses will be appreciated :) I was just wondering how you stop thinking about someone. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we don't have an...

Mixed signals... or false hope?

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30 October 2010 (F) - My bf boke up with me after one year and 5 months. We never had a real fight a couple disagreements but other than that always had agreat time together. I let him get to know my children and now it is over, cause he said he is scared, confused and ...

My best friend has broken up with him and I would love to be with him... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi there I like this boy, i mean i really like him and we are good friends but my best friend was actually going out with him and i felt guilty about liking him . . but my best friend knew that i liked him and she said she was ok about it but i kn...

Did I deserve this treatment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have to admit that Im fuming at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half because of many reasons, but a few of them is his anger-issues and that he could never give me what I needed. So, I want it settled once and for all, if ...

What should be my next move in order to restore some sort of sanity in my life because I feel myself breaking apart in anger and distrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Alright I am not really sure where to begin because I feel that it is truly lost forever due to the fact that I have put forth a valiant effort in rekindling a four year relationship and my two year old daughter's future of mommy and daddy being ...

He acts like he hates me and I don't want to keep begging him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi,my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago after an 8 month relationship. He said it was better for both of us. Lately we've been having lots of arguments and he has anger management issues.At the beginning of this month, he slapped me ...

Break up or hate music?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - pretty simple question to ask. this girl I thought I liked isn't what I thought and she has helped me realize this with some of her actions lately. Anyway my question is what is the best break up music or hate music. Something that will really...

Should I wait for him to choose between her and I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Should I wait for him to choose? I was dating a guy for a while, we were first very good friends. Things were okay but then he felt I was nagging and complaining all the time, also, not supportive of his career. Because of those reasons he chose...

I think I've finally had it! Should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Confused, pissed and frustrated. I can't stop feeling angry over boyfriend not helping me co-sign for an apartment. We have been together 10 years. Lived together for 5 years, 3 years lived in my own apartment(we do better with a little space ...

Unresolved questions from my break up, please help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My live-in boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago and while I am better, it's still painful when you trust someone so much and believe in everything they have told you. All I want to know is, why after you have been so close to someone, woken u...

Will he be more likely to contact me if I stop trying to contact him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have broken up with my boyfriend,2 weeks ago.He hasn't contacted me although i did email him and text him but no response.Does the "No Contact" rule actually works? I read on a website that if you want your lover back then he has to miss you 1st ...

Broke up with my gf over stupid issues, I want to sort things out but she says its over!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Please help, I am confused. I recently split with my girlfriend, we were living together for 3 and half years and have a younge child together. We were argueing a lot and small things that could have changed on both parts didn't. since the split i ...

He says he needs "me time". I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Last month (9/28/10) the guy I was with and had a child together decided while I was in class to pack up his belongings and move out. When I got home from a great day he told me he was leaving, not just to the store, but us (me, our child and my ...

I've lost all the men in my life, but I have realised I really care about boyfriend number 2. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - hello dear cupid, well this is my story. when i left high school i met a guy during the holiday, i usually hear about him but i rarely saw him before. he is my friend's nephew. one night at their family's wedding he asked his aunt about me, and told ...

Do breaks ever help a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Do breaks ever help a relationship? My fiancee and I have been together for about 3.5 years, a little over a week ago she suggested we take a break, but still remain monogamous.. since then she has been to a party with several people and got real...

Why won't he ask me out? help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - So I had boyfriend but we had to break up because he had to leave e for the summer and our feelings for each other kinda went away. He hadn't had a gf in 5 years till he got with me. When we broke up we decided to be friends and we kept a good ...

How can I stop myself wishing the worst on my ex and his new wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me about a year ago,we had been together two years.I had no idea he was planning to leave me.We had a child together she was around 15 mounths.So me and my daughter had to find somewhere else to live.It was really confusing,and ...

Should I let it go, even though I need closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - when i was on a school trip i completely and utterly fell for a boy. Halfway through the week we got together and we moved fast (boys and girls weren't allowed in the same room for a reason - we didn't have sx but a few more days and we would have ...

She wants a break, but I am so scared of losing her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Hello, now, first of all I am a 15 year old boy. I have been in a 6 month relationship with my girlfriend who is 13 years old. Now, everything has been great, since the start, my love for her has been constantly growing. Suddenly, a co...

I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im n...

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day sh...

We are back together but instead of things getting better, they are worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I dont know whats going on in my relationship or how my boyfriend thinks. When we first started dating he sent me text messages that say have a nice day or something like that. but he never showed anyone that he was with me, he wont hold my hand or ...

Looking for a great play list of songs to work out to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Last spring I went through a rough break up and I still have some slight bitterness about the whole thing. Lately I've been getting slightly out of shape and have wanted to start working out again. My job has been making that a bit difficult but I ...

Why am I hurting so bad when I was the one that ended it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months last thursday. he called me a bitch for the first(and last)time because i didnt call him wenesday. he had a key to my apt and spent 2 nights a week with me and weekends. we never faught much but when he ...

After we broke up I was so angry I went to his mum and told her everything! I know this was a terrible thing to do but I still want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of a year and a half just called it quits 2 days ago. I feel a sense of anger but I still can't get the sadness out. I told him I still wanted to be friends and I know he agreed just to be nice. So last night I did something ...

I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her ...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

Does she want to work things out or is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be ...

I cant get over my break-up and I'm losing hope in myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - My LDR girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 6 weeks now, about a week after we broke up she was already involved in another relationship with someone else. She told me this about 2 weeks after we broke up. It hurt like hell, all I could ...

Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no ...

My girlfriend's ex is stalking her and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So I'm dating my ex-girlfriend again. We broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she dated this other guy for about 2 years. They broke up about 9 months ago, I dated other girls but none of them really fit the bill so I decided to try again with ...

I'm heartbroken at being dumped because we got uninvolved with each other's daily lives... I need to hear some different perspectives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive had a relationship before, and ive been dumped before. This time its worse. Basically, ive been going out with him for a while now, and it might just be me but i get used to things, i get attatched and when they leave i cant cope myself...

Did he really mean that he doesn't want to be a boyfriend because he can't be a good one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - So me and my ex broke up 1 month ago. We were together for almost 5 months, which was my longest relationship. Anyway, he always said that if we broke up that he wanted us to stay friends. I usually stay friends so that's not a problem for me. Now ...

Should I walk out of her life? She doesn't want an LDR and has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i ...

Why wont my ex return my belongings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up about two weeks ago, and he still has some of my stuff at his place. I have asked for these things to be retuned, and a week ago I got some of them, but not the most important ones. Last meeting ended up with a fight as ...

Why cant he even show our children some fatherly love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,i once was married to a guy whom i got two kids with. My in laws recognized me as his wife but he delayed too much in officiating the matter. I later moved out of the relationship with my kids. He never bothered about our whereabouts until six ...