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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why doesn't he seem to care when I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

31 March 2010 (?) - Hello, I really hope someone can read this and offer some insight. This is a bit long, so thanks in advance for reading it. I have been with my partner for two years now and everything is generally great. However, a few months ago after a very...

If you got together after a break up, how did you achieve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Hi I've recently split up with my boyfriend...and I'm just wondering if any people have gone through a break up and got back together at a later point. If so how did you achieve this. Thanks...

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where ...

Someone get my name off this mortgage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - how can i get my ex to give me financial settlement for our house. she wont sell it, ignores all solicitors letters, when i met her 5 years ago i had 30k and we used it to do the house up and had a couple of ...

My ex getting engaged with her one and a half month new guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Hello! I found out that my ex, (we broke up about 3 months ago after a year of beeing together) is getting engaged with her rebound relationship. I could tell even after she broke up with me that she was attracted to me and we kept contact cos ...

Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...

Why would he not say a word after everything that's happened? What's going through his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im really confused at the moment and recently ive had no sleep.' the reason i think this is happening is because of this one lad. ( sorry about poor punctuation as my full stop doesnt seem to want to work [Mod note: I put some in for you, thanks for ...

What are the odds that her new relationship won't work out, and if she'll realize I won't lie anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - i lied to my girlfriend for 5 months about hanging out with friends and then confessed and stopped lyin.she lied in the beggining of our relationship about her ex boyfriend for about 6 months and i forgave her. she wont forgive me and started lyin ...

Should I consider getting back together with him while he's so close with this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I don't really know if I'm looking for advice, or just to see what other people think of this situation, but here goes. I broke up with my boyfriend about two months ago, for various reasons but that is not to say we had a bad relationship. As soon ...

He proposed but doesn't want to be seen with me in public or introduce me to his parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend studied together during our graduation programme and soon we bcame best of friends. he proposed me last yr and we had a perfect relationship for the first few months. then we had to return back to our respective cities after ...

Will texting an ex give him hope of getting back together? That is not my intention.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Hi, wonder if anyone could advise me on a recent relationship break-up. Me and my now ex bf had been dating for 2 years off and on. We had dated before that but ended things for a good year and both saw other people. When we got back together, w...

I want him back! Things went wrong after we moved in together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend. Been together for 2 years lived together for 6 months. We had the odd row you know, but we always got over it. My exboyfriend recently admitted that he isn't in love with me more ... he still loves me and care...

Do I come clean or leave the reason for the break up as is?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Okay so I have made a mess of things and I just want to try and do the best I can from the mess I've made! I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and it has been really good and I have NO complaints, this guy is almost perfect.... He has been...

I am confused and miss my ex but she's moved on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Any advice please?? I was with my gf for 8 months and everything was perfect, we both got on so well and really loved each other. A few months ago she went back to university and i have had to move away for 18 months due to my career. Everythi...

My world fell apart when my husband started this affair...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My world fell apart when my husband began an affair on the 23rd of December 2009. As far as I knew all was well! Its made harder by the fact the girl is everything he has ever tried to change about me.. she is a large girl who is covered in facial ...

Is my relationship REALLY over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months. The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can s...

My partner seems confused, he wants to break it off then he doesn't. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - hi, where to start, Been with my partner only a short period of time but in that time things have been really good, we have met each others families, friends and all get on very well. Every couple has a moment and we had one at 6 months and worke...

He can only offer me friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I want him back I have been dating a guy for 4 months. During this period he doesn't care for me much. But I loved him so much. One day I couldn't control my emotions and I call him and cried explaining the things I am expectng from him. Also I...

Does he sound interested from his text message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Me and my ex split up about a month ago due to lots of arguing and personal issues - we needed space. Two weeks into the break up after no contact between us he tried to reach out to me by texting me asking how I was doing, and I politely told hi...

Was I selfish because I concentrated on my career so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Can someone help me out please? I was in a relationship for about 8 months last summer with a girl who i met at uni and lived close to my home. The relationship was amazing and we got along so well, never argued and spent all our time together. She ...

Should I be in love at 17 years of age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hello im 17 and i had a boyfriend and we just finshed... i dont know what went wrong ..one day he just finshed everything.. i was heatbroken and cried for a day over him.. we talked about it but he still didnt say why we finshed but we are friends ...

Boyfriend as your best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Following my recent breakup with my boyfriend, its been very difficult for us not to talk to each other as he always said that our friendship was the most important part of us. Recently we've been texting, casually. He's still able to make me ...

I don't know if he really means to break up or if he is rethinking his decision

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for about a year. We were in love, he moved in with me, I spent every Sunday with him and his family, the whole 9 yards. In the last few months we started arguing a lot. He was staying out late, drinking more, etc. ...

I don't understand why I feel so needy all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Ever since I ended a relationship two months ago, i've always been feeling vulnerable, especially when at times things don't go right. Why do I feel as though I really need someone? It's a needy feeling. I didnt feel so before knowing that guy. Why ...

I told him I was not stupid when he asked for a loan. Now he wont speak to me, ...did I handle this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Can someone please help me out. I have been dating this guy that I once dated before. So getting to know each other would not be a deal. We were so happy getting back together. About a week ago his calls and txt messages had stopped. Even when I ...

I don't want to be in the endless breaking up/dating cycle, ... but I also don't want him to move on completely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have a question that will seem like there is a common sense answer. But I will ask it anyway. My boyfriend and I have been on and off again more times than I can count. We have only been together for about 3 months but it feels like years. I ...

Why did he do that?? He's destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - my bf ( should I say my ex) accused me of cheating and messing him around. and didn't contact me for 2months and i didn't call him either cos I knew he was not interested anymore so i got on with my life hoping hed contact me. he rang me on ...

My married best friend is in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My best friend and I have been inseperable for the last 13 years. He has just recently gotten married. since then I have distanced myself, do to the fact that all women are not as comfortable with their other half having a female for a best friend. ...

Appreciation of my girlfriend/relationship.... does it sound like a good idea??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - Hey people, So me and my girlfriend just got back together after a month and week of being split up and I have to say times are definitely great. We are back to ourselves and most importantly, back together. But I've started thinking and I am thi...

5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...

Is it right that I should go back out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - heyy, i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because i was all stressed and i didn't want that to effect anything .. we both stayed friends i text him this morning whilst he was on holiday to just ask how he was then he text back saying...

Help please! Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things? its been almost a month and a half since things went bad with a girl i was dating for a little while.. i did everything i thought was right made sure i wasn't over bearing... really crossed t...

He ended it with me... but he still loves me!!! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My partner and i have only been together for a short period of time (10 months) hes 25, im 21. We had a rough patch after 6 months but worked through it and since then things have been brilliant.. Then he turns up saturday and tells me he cant do it ...

Will he take me back after it has been a few years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - A few years ago I was with this guy. We were so in love and attached to each other. We were both each other's first and we were together almost 2 years. He went away for a bit and the distance tore us apart, when he got back he decided that we ...

Can I be forgiven for cheating? Do I deserve a chance to prove myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - This is what happened, i was with my now ex "Ladge" on and off for 2 years. We split and decided to become friends as we got on so well. We never loved each other but as she had a kid and enjoyed doing sports together we tried to keep a friendship ...

Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met ...

I don't understand why do I still think about my ex and have feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I can't seem to get over my ex and don't know if I should try talking to my ex again. We broke up nine months ago and I still have feelings for him. He broke up with me and said it was because he was going to ruin my life. Its a little complicated ...

Dumped, badly, and now worried about heartbreak again!

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29 March 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. I have just got out of a serious relationship well lets just say the dirt bag left me on the day of my grandma's funeral harsh huh ! there was no warning or anything he just said that morning as I was getting ready to leave, I ...

He wants me to let him go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - we been together for almost close to 4 years now, my bf and me have an off and on relationship. we broke up many times and back together. for this past months, we been in a rocky life. we fought and we were then ok after patching up things. and ...

She loves me, I'm her best friend, but she's not "in love"! I'm floored.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I have been blindsided by my (or should I say former) girlfriend of 7 months. I thought that we had the best relationship. To me, she was "the one". I was sure of it. I was planning on marrying her after I graduated. We connected so well, and we ...

Time apart or is she stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - Okay here is the situation, she wants a temporary time apart but still want us to be friends until we work out our personal problems and get back together as a couple. But every time I turn around she is asking me for favors, calling, text me all ...

He loves another girl! But I can't leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I am loving my cousin brother and he is also in love with me.for the past one and half years, we enjoyed as like other lovers. Trust me, he truly loved me. But now he says that he is loving another girl. I couldnt leave him. what can i do?...

It's as though he can treat me however he wants because he knows I'll stay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Im stuck in a relationship rut and I dont know whether to end it, ask for a break or try and make it work. for some time now ive felt that my boyfriend doesnt put any effort into the relationship. there are many reasons why i think this: 1...

Don't tell me to get over her - how do I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Met this girl online over 3 years ago and fell in love. She's perfect for me, the most wonderful girl I've ever met in my life and never have any of my physical relationships before her been as wonderful as my relationship with this girl. We would ...

I feel like I'm holding onto someone who isn't meant to be held on to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in an on and off relationship for a year. i gave up everything for him. i know money doesnt buy happiness but i gave up my ex boyfriend who was in the army and who was doing everything for me, for him. someone who didnt ...

He won't communicate with me and says our relationship is over. Should I just let him go like that, or try to get him to talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - It's a long story but I recently traveled overseas to be with the guy I love for three months so that I could find out once and for all if we were in any way compatible. Yeah, I know, it was crazy, but it was a once in a lifetime opportunity, it was ...

Independence after the breakup

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months and it hurts. The breakup was coming for a while, but I put it out of my head because I thought maybe feelings would change and we would want to continue after I left university and he stayed o...

Exposed my former wife's lies, but still unsure of my future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I'm in my early stages of a breakup and I'm pretty sure i want to go forward from here. i will keep it in point form as it is a long history: recently found out that my partner has been seeing another man, was/am super pissed off. she denied i...

I know I shouldn't have cheated, so how can I have a future with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Im currently engaged to my beautiful fiance, who i have been with for a year now... We started dating in march 2009. It started out as a physical relationship for like the first month, and eventually the emotions got deeper. But at the same time i ...

We started dating too soon after she broke up with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I've dated a girl who is still getting over difficult relationship. Shes been with someone for a year and both were expected to get married, but out of the blue, he left her and that was it. 3 months later, we started going out. It went well, but ...