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He ended it with me... but he still loves me!!! What gives?

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Question - (29 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My partner and i have only been together for a short period of time (10 months) hes 25, im 21. We had a rough patch after 6 months but worked through it and since then things have been brilliant.. Then he turns up saturday and tells me he cant do it anymore and finishes it? And jabbers on... one min hes saying he still loves me, then doesnt, then does, then he wanted to be with me then didnt and loads of other things... after 2 hours i was very confused, he left and that was that!

Then i texed him and asked him to have a think and he said he would and would call me at the end of the week, i said he didnt have to have a think but he said it would be good for him to have time to think.... im so confused? I've resigned myself to the fact when i see him in a weeks time its to discuss why he ended it and not to get back together... Help? What do people think is going on?! Guys help would be appreciated?!

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A female reader, cherelle United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2010):

i wrote this but wasnt registered then!... The thing is it wasnt problems as such....just we almost got to comfortable with eachother?.... To soon?.... he ended it but only a week ago he was saying how happy i make him and how he had no plans or dates but saw us going somewhere!!!..... I just dont get it.... I have accepted ita over and now im trting to move on but i know hes going to call or text in a week or so and i just think why am i doing it just for him to tell me its over?.... Again?...and break my heart....again?....

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2010):

Run a mile. He has major issues that are clouding his judgement. If at 6 months into your relationship you were having problems, and at ten months you split up, you can be sure this is not the man for you at all. He may have commitment issues, or other issues. Either way, this is a guy you need to cut out of your life and move on from.

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