A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:im really confused at the moment and recently ive had no sleep.' the reason i think this is happening is because of this one lad. ( sorry about poor punctuation as my full stop doesnt seem to want to work [Mod note: I put some in for you, thanks for the apology. Don't forget the paragraph next time either. And using the shift key wouldn't kill you either... ;D]) he was one of my boyfriends friends and he knew how my boyfriend was cheating nd how i wasnt happy and he was so nice to me and as i got to know him he really got close and soon i startd feelingg for him and after telling him he said the same. but abit after he startd changing it was like i was doing all the runing after him. i was calling him, facebooking him, this and that. he used to say it was cute and he loved me but other times i felt like he didnt care. one day he said to me dont comment on my facebook because people are starting to think were dating and i was upset that he may be embarasedd about me. and the other time i saw some other girl comenting on his facebook talking about how he loves her voice and i called him to ask about it and his response was, well were not dating so whats it to you and i was messing with her no big deal. but the other day he was asking me who i talk to on the phone this and that and i said to him after i dont need you as i was feeling very angry with how i had to run after him and he put the phone down on me and i texted him telling him how i couldnt take anymore and id had enough as he doesnt put any effort in and since then he hasnt said ONE word to me. why hasnt he said anything when i thought he loved me? a boys opinion would be good as i want to know what hes thinking/ his side of all this and i feel so paranoid and angry all the time how can i stop feeling this way?
View related questions:
facebook, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
I agree that he's not all that into you. Pull back and make him fight for you a bit. If he doesn't, you'll know he's not the one.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): He is just not that into you. You are his just in case it doesn't work. A guy will get away with what ever he can and if he see you are secure than that it. Have you heard of the wants it cake and eat it too, Don't be so clinging let it be put your eyes else where. Make him think if you are the one don't make it easy to cheat because he will think you will easily forgive.
...............................
|
