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Help please! Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things?

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Question - (29 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *iket389 writes:

Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things?

its been almost a month and a half since things went bad with a girl i was dating for a little while.. i did everything i thought was right made sure i wasn't over bearing... really crossed the t's and dotted the I's... i told her right from the beginning that as long as she didn't lie something could be worked out... well she lied.. and is back with her ex and supposedly talking to someone else too.. I know this isn't anything i want a part of and i did the right thing and told her to leave me alone... she put a good show on and made me believe she was what i was looking for.. i think her concious caught up with her cuz she changed and thats when she lied and i tweaked and told her to hit the road... My question is im having a really hard time just letting go of this... i really cared about her and thought things were going to work.. i know shes not right for me now.. so why do i still think about hr and the fact shes with someone else ALReady?.. i just can't seem to let go.. and that bothers me more than anything.. please any advice would be great

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A male reader, manaja United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2010):

Hi Ive been there , its a rubbish situation to be in , she obviously doesnt know what she wants , let her go, try to stop thinking about her, dont take her back , she'l only mess with your mind some more.Go out and have fun with your friends , eventually you'l meet someone new and forget all about her.

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