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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my ...

I don't know what to think! Please help me out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outsi...

My ex and I are cool again...how to take it further?

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30 April 2010 (F) - Hello! Hoping you guys can help me figure out where to go from here. My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago and it was quite rough for me at first but I'm really doing great now! I gave myself time to heal, initiated a little contact and ...

Should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has recently finished with me, but today he told me that he has made a big mistake, he said that he still loves me with all of his heart and that he would do anything to go back to how it used to be. he asked me if i still loved him and ...

It hurts that my boyfriend seems to be moving on so fast!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My long-distance boyfriend and I broke up last friday, a week ago today. We both want to remain friends, but obviously it will take time. I decided what's best for me is no contact for awhile. At least until I'm a bit stronger, and can handle ...

Should I pursue this relationship with my online boyfriend or leave him be because of my earlier fears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi... about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as w...

Wife wants me to leave over someting I don't remember doing, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Question, my wife and I have been married for almost 4 years now, we have not been getting along lately, we have had some tension. We recently moved out of state for a fresh start, I have been out of work and just started training for a new career. ...

Boyfriend wants a break after 6 years for no explained reason. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had a long distance relationship(the 1st 4 yrs we were 3 hrs away) then 5th yr he moved to Europe for school and we decided to stay together. I loved to europe to to join school as well. Now this ...

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...

First he says he loves me, ...then says he never had any feelings for me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I mentioned 4 months ago that my boyfriend said he was laeving the country for good and he had to look afdter his parents and tahthe couldnt take me with him becaus ethat place isnt for me, conditions are not suitable to live being a ...

He promised me forever, ...but here I am single after only 4 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, we were only together for 4 months but he pormised we'd always be together, and he was moving away..and promised me long distance would work. However after a week we broke up :( He's over it completely and ...

I just don't know how to walk away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - well, my Bf keep cheating, dating chatting on facebook. he denied that we are actually together once. i walked out and i came back to him.it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time. He hurts me badly, he doesn't care, he chat with ...

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it a...

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read t...

Divorced and alone, how can I make my life more fulfilling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok Here we go I will try this .I am a 43 yr old woman who has been married for 28 yrs Always with my husband until he ask for a divorce in feb. of 2008 and then he moved out on his own.I missed him badly but come to realize he wasnt coming back ...

Am I being too nit picky? Should I try to reconcile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am 23 years old and my ex-boyfriend, whom I broke up with yesterday, is 26. I am considering calling him to reconcile/talk and am not sure if this is a good idea. My boyfriend is a wonderful man-- tender, very physically affectionate (borderline ...

I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...

It feels like our relationship has gone backwards not forwards!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my partner (also my sons father and father to the child im presently carrying) have recently broke up, after a cupple of days we realised we wanted to be together but the problem is, is the fact he wants to saty in his own house and not our ...

I am not valued, should I leave and how will I cope alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi...i need help here...i met this guy about 2 years back--and i really do love him but lately hes begun making excuses to meet or get intimate--though whenever am in trouble he helps...but if i ask my close friends even they will--i want a guy to ...

So if I love him, do I try and get him back? Or is this just a phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So here's my story. I started dating this guy my senior year of high school. Then we went to two different colleges and continued a long distance relationship for another 2 1/2 years. The distance sucked, but we loved each other and wanted to make ...

He says he'll come back if I kick my brother and his girlfriend out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my ex partner got back together five months ago, after seperating two years before when our son was born. the relationship endend badly last time as he cheated on me time and time again and as much as i wanted to be with him i couldnt take it ...

His ex-girlfriend is pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid my bf had broken up with his ex-girlfriend for about four months and we have been in love with him for about five months and then his ex came saying she pregnant and he is the one responsible, she also said that since she pregnant she is ...

Help in leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - We've been living together for almost 13 years. After all the reading on the internet I realize that it is an emotionally abusive relationship. No wonder I've been miserable for 12 of those years. We just bought a house 1 year ago, and have ...

She's always comparing me to her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Should I end this relationship before we get more attached? My current girlfriend and I have been dating almost 1 year now. Problem is her past. Not that she has a past, but she's always throwing up things in my face. More information, she dated 3 ...

Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be....

I want my boyfriend of year and a half back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I want my boyfriend of year and a half back. i lashed out on him for the first time because i was sick of him constantly verbally abusing me. i know i did wrong and i'm truely sorry - i would never do it again. he's adament he's not going to take me ...

What do I do now that me and my ex are talking again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok i really need some help here, me and my ex have been broken up since Oct. 09 its a lot more complicated then just breaking up but i'll get to the main point. We just recently after 6 months of not talking or seeing eachother have started at...

Friendship, love... I'm getting confused here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I have asked for help previously and got some pretty good advice so I thought I'd try again. I think I made a terrible mistake last night and want to know what I can do to fix it. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend an...

How do I get over these dreams of my ex? What do they mean and how can I stop them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 1.75 years a month ago. To be honest, I think we still loved each other (at least I still loved him), but I wasn't really a priority to him anymore. I was always left in the dust, and I don't think he was really ready for a ...

Does he love me if he feels the need to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 4 years, until about 2 months ago. We broke up due to mutual decisions, which we both realise now are trivial compared to how much we love each other and want to be together. While we were broken up, I slept with ...

Love and heartache

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Me and my fiance recently broke up-his decision. He says we should just be friends the thing is I don't think he really means this. We are still having sex. We have kids and have been down this road before to only have him tell me he loves me and ...

What does one do to accept a relationship is over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Just wanting to know how people accept when a relationship is over because one person has commited numerous hurts to the other and no matter what they did, the relationship could never be happy 100% because of the outcomes of the betrayal.. How do ...

Why did she do this? Is there a chance of getting her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 6 months but weve been 'TOGETHER" for a year, and she broke up with me...because she says she doesnt ever think she will ever love me.. but yet she is miserable..now that were broke up.. even tho we had a ...

We're on a break, should I not go to the club she'll be going to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I are on a break and I am planning on going to a club this weekend but she is going to be there. Shall i still go?...

I am trying to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am trying to get my ex back. We were dating for few months when i kissed someone else. I came clean the next day and he broke up with me. I know what i did was wrong and i regret it more than anything. I really love this guy and i want nothing ...

He says that he loves me, but he dumped me, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - My ex is STILL saying he loves me, it has been a month since he dumped me. I told him to stop saying this to me but he said no, and that he would always love and care about me. He said,why can't you accept my love,whatever form it is in?..What does ...

How do I get over my want of a threesome?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend. She does not want to. i also like looking at porn and chatting on the net and understandably this upsets her. she says the threesome(watching porn ...

When do you say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When is enough enough???????????????? I'm with my partner over 15 years and we have a mortgage and two kids a two year old and a ten year old and for the last two years since the baby was born we have just not been getting on, fighting over the same...

Should I get out of this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Hi all. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In this time we loved each other -- I still do, and she does but there is problems, which I'll explain ahead -- and we even had a baby boy (4 months now). There is a lot going...

My current boyfriend makes me happy but I still long for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Right I'm confused. I'm in love with my ex (let's call him X), I miss him so much. But I didn't realise this until recently. He broke up with me about a year ago. This upset me a lot. Since him I've dated 3 guys. Two of those relationships...

How do people get through this heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am totally broken, can anyone please give me some advice i have been with my fiance for five years, which were the best yesrs of my life, we were supposedly so in love and spent every spare minuite together.i then had two very close bereavemen...

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out ...

I feel like I have lost everything! Can anyone offer any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - This isn't really about love, and it's not really a question but any words would be great. I think I'm cracking up. I lost my job and my fiance in the same month, last year, and am about to lose my apartment cause I have no money. The bills are mo...

Why did he end a good relationship with me to date women who treat him badly, and then rub my face in his new relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Lately I've been ocassionally talking to my ex via txt. Last time we saw each other (3 mo or so ago) we had a discussion bout us being tired of the dating scene, we never had real probs in our relationship and he made it seem he was open to date me ...

How do I get over the relationship when he made me chose between "all or nothing"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Hey! So my question is how do you get over someone? Like i was in an on and off relationship for about 3 years we were closer than close i even lost my virginity to him. The reason our relationship ended is because i wasn't willing to make the type ...

Is it okay to break up by text message? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - So how do you feel about being broken up with by text message? To me there are two types of breakup: 1. You care about the person and you either would consider still talking or even getting back together. 2. You just want to burn your bridges, th...

Need advice! He appears to love me, but claims not..., and how do I remain friends? Help appreciated!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Ugh, So My boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me a week ago. I've been either really happy or really upset since then. Everyone keeps telling me that he was the one that made the mistake of dumping me and everything. I don't know what to do,...

Can you ever get over a guy who stole your first kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Up until recently I brokeup with my ex. We were only together when I moved away from his city to go uni so we actually never got to go on a proper date while being a pair since i broke it off cuz i couldn't handle missing him so much and neither ...

I ripped the shirt off his back and he broke up with me but I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - boyfriend of a year and a half doesn't want me anymore :( everything was perfect when we first got together but he was doing all of the running as i could take it or leave it but now it's the other way around. he's really down and depressed and take...

How can I tell him that I like him as a person and would love to get to know him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - OK. So good news is, i finally took the guts to end things with my ex-bf in a good way.-Been Four months and i finally decide to do this. Done also, i stopped contacting a guy who's just using me as a booty call. i accepted his flaws and all ti...