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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Does my ex still love me, or is he just after my money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi!please help me,last monday i call my x-bf coz i just try if he answer the phone coz i missed him then he did,he talk that we almost 5 months for being together if we dont broke up...so last tuesday we meet and then i give him a money to help ...

My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...

Am I really gay? I can't decide if I want to be with men or women!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I wrote in before about being in a gay relationship and wasn't sure if that lifestyle was for me. I have now ended the relationship and i am gutted.... My ex g/f has been great, i've hurt her really badly but she understands my dilema about being wi...

My ex could never get over the fact I dated somebody else during a break: please help me put my family back together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - my ex and i have were together over 4 years. we have a beautiful little girl, an engagement, 2 dogs, a house, joint bank accounts, etc. things were rough about 2 1/2 years in, we fought constantly and i split up with her, then dated another wo...

Should I dump my boyfriend for this other guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - hi im a 14 yr old girl and atm i hav a bf who i still like, but there is another guy that loves me so much more than my bf and he seems really nice and i think im starting to have feelings for him. the only problem is my bf and i hav been together ...

I can't decide.....my wife?? Or my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I need help from someone who has been through this life crisis before, and has time to read my story! My wife and I married in our late 20s, thinking we both knew what we wanted, and although we didn’t have a whirlwind passionate romance, we thou...

Is there any hope of winning her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - This may be long but please help me out Ok so my gf left me a month ago. The final talk we had she said for me to let her go if i loved her as much as i said i did and that i wasnt giving her space and so i did, she also said we cant get back to...

How do I get some closure - and is it worth trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - About 5 days ago my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me, saying that he just wanted to be friends and wasn't 'feeling' our relationship. He said he was sorry, and that I didn't do anything wrong. This was a total shock to me, as we had been ...

She flirted but never intended to date me! Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6139 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Hi.i got a small problem.MY friend is 56 and me 42.A while ago she was sending me messages that we were goin to be an item.i in stoke, she in glasgow.and so it went on until a sunday where she came out with deep feelings for me and was confused cos ...

Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we ...

Should I break a promise I made after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years for a number of reasons. Over the past few weeks we have been unravelling our relationship, while she prepares to leave the country for up to 2 years in a month or two. I own the car, but she used...

Why does he keep calling me and wanting to hang out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I dated this guy for almost 2 years, and he was acting distant and always ditching me for his friends so i broke up with him, hoping it would bring back the guy he used to be. He didnt come back, we spent the next 10 months together but ...

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says ...

I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and ...

He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I ...

He abuses me emotionally, But I can't leave him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Please help me. I'm desperate. I am so in love with my bf, I mean I have never been in love like I am now, but things have happened, I should leave him. Things have turned so nasty between us, but I am so in love, I can't actually tell the diff...

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

He invited me to functions and I had other plans. Now he won't call.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to ...

I broke up with her but I don't want it to end! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Hi all! I feel totally down right now. I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday over the telephone. It was like this. We had difficult times and were just starting to get to the right track again. Yesterday we talked about our problems and we ...

Its gone sour since she moved here to be with me but I'm worried about her wellbeing if we split, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked ...

What to do with him...Do you think we are really broken up for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hello my ex and i been broken up for about 2 weeks now and sunday night i went to his house we talked..he basically told me that we're still young and that hes not ready to commit yet.then he said i'd be wasting my time if i waited for him.....

I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he ...

Been ignoring him after the sexual encounter as he is too silent in bed for my taste. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I ...

Is he playing with my feelings or being genuine??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Okay its me again...... I sent an email on 28th dec because i had broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months over whether he would support me if i got pregnant. We had used double protection (i went on the pill, he used condoms) but he had trouble g...

He just suddenly dumped me! Has he got someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months and we were fine, we argued a few times like people do. We always told each other if we didnt like something that one of us had said or done. He would tell me he loved me and i would tell him i...

It's been 7 months and I'm not fully over her. What can I do to keep moving forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Still not over her. We're now over 7 months since my ex left me, and it seems I just can't fully get over her. I felt like I was getting there a very short time ago, but for whatever reason, I just can't get over her. I loved her so much, and was...

I worked hard, she let go and is happy, I'm hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I came out of a relationship just over 4 months ago. I guess my ex just decided she could do better and wanted to enjoy the freedom of being single. Since she split with me it's felt like there's been a dark cloud hanging over me. People have told ...

She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow ...

Will I ever win my ex bf back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex around 2 years ago this may. However we still keep in close contact and see each other every day. I have been through periods where I've had another love interest and felt I was over him, but at the end I've always gone back to ...

Broke up with my clingy bf 3 weeks ago and he won't leave me alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i broke up with this guy about 3 weeks ago and he wont leave me alone recently i have got together with somebody else but he gets really annoyed when my ex rings me. he calls me about 50 times in an hour, this was one of the reasons why i broke up...

He cheated with his ex and dumped me because I am too controlling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses o...

My ex's best friend is getting on my nerves, how can I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I split with my boyfriend early December last year after a few weeks together, I've seen him, but not spoken to him since. I never had sex with him as I was not ready. Anyway, I always see his mate marc down the pub, and when ever I go there an...

Things were going well, then suddenly sour. I don't know what to think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Dear readers I have a question which i need some help and advice on. By not knowing me i think you can provide me with your honest and open opinion I met this guy off the internet in August. it was an indian dating website which i had no hope of w...

Confused...I still love her, but I'm not happy and I want to leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I'm 24 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together and we have plans to get married. In the beginning it was rocky and I wasnt the best boyfriend. I cheated on her. But now I believe that I have ...

I'm thinking we're better of friends than lovers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I really need advise. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 26 I am 31. I am very sexual and had great self confidence in bed until now. He always had issue with sex from the begining. Couldn't get it up or keep it up. I don't ...

Any thoughts of his behavior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend and at the end of November. He was kind of rude to me at a party I saw him at. I asked him if I had done something to make him mad and he said I had not but he was bummed out about something else. We have ...

I'm confuesed and don't want to make the first move.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i've known this guy for over a year and although he's lived a long way away from me for most of this, we've kept very much in touch as friends and have always had a fairly flirty relationship. now he is living much closer to me and i've gone to stay ...

This guy dumps me out of the blue and then runs after me to say "hi" Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Well it's been a month nearly since me and my bf of 10 months split. I'm 20, he's 22, and his reasons for ending it were contradictory to say the least. He told me his feelings for me hadn't changed but that he wasn't ready for a relationship this ...

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...

Help me clarify this...Did I break up with him or did he break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I know it doesn't matter now, but I just want to know if in fact I was the one who broke up with my ex fiance. The day I left his house (broke up with him) I asked him if he could start paying for his own toiletries b/c I couldn't afford paying for ...

Whats going on through his head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) - Hey i have to talk to someone or im either going to cry or scream or do something stupid. Argh so here goes. First off Im going to tell u the story of how 4 and a half months of my life get flushed down the toilet in a single weekend, my ...

I love her a lot but she won't have me back and is giving me mixed signals. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - Hi everybody.hope you can help .now were do i start? ok i recently broke up with my ex gf because we kept on arguing.the arguing for me was bcoz i felt rejected all the time.she on the other hand due to pof was very irritable,had zero sexual desire, ...

Never knew there was a problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Im so Confused! Nearly 2 years ago my ex of 8 years walked out on me and our son of then aged 5 with no warning. (My world just feel apart) We never argued and I thought we was really happy-even trying for our 2nd child. I just dont know what went...

She's a two timing gal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, we had a arugement about a month ago and from what i thought we resolved it. Later i found out she was cheating on me with her ex boyfriend, through this whole ordeal i agreed to stay with her ...

Arranged marriage ruining my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged...

What exactly is my ex doing? Playing with my head, being friendly or maybe wanting me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Ok well cut a long story short, me and my serious boyfriend split up just under 5months ago (his choice i was heartbroken). He did some bad things to me since we split e.g got with (snogged) one of my ex best mates and sent me a photo of it, posted ...

He never came home last night. He cheated before... I'm lost. Can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do i'm with my partner 9 years we have two boys. two years ago when i was pregnant he had two affairs and used stay out all nyt i kicked his ass out when i found out and 6 months later i took him back but i told him never to ...

Overwhelmed by failed marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I am 41 and going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marraige and im scared as heck and dont really know what life has in store for me and my daughter ...The Divorce is just really starting but he ask me in April I thought there was Hope But ...

How to be more masculine and be myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - Hi whats masculinity, my girl friends dumped me because she says i'm not masculine enough. Now I resent talking about my feelings to her, I wasn't comfortable with it at the time and now I know why. How can you increase your masculinity....

Pregnant, homeless and confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those ...