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writes:hi im a 14 yr old girl and atm i hav a bf who i still like, but there is another guy that loves me so much more than my bf and he seems really nice and i think im starting to have feelings for him. the only problem is my bf and i hav been together for over a year now so i feel bad dumping him for another guy.. :(Can someone plese tell me what to do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Hey I'm so glad that everything turned out well for you!
Good luck with everything x x x
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reader, lil-milly +, writes (1 February 2008):
lil-milly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks sooo much 2 every1 that helped. i spoke 2 my bf and asked 2 b just frineds and he is perfectly fine with it and now im going out with this other guy who my bf has become gd frined with in the last day. so yer everything has turned out fantastic.. so once again thankyou for everything u all helped alot.
Much love Milly. xxxxxxxxx
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reader, lil-milly +, writes (1 February 2008):
lil-milly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all so much. i let him kno that i just want 2 b friends and he said he was fine with thta. but i think i mgiht wait just a bit until i start going out with the other guy.. :) once again thx all
Love milly xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): im also 14 and in the exact same position. i feel harsh dumping my boyfriend but i do like the other guy more. the only difference is that i think all that the other lad wants is sex but i cant help but love him ? i think you should follow your heart dont dwell on the period your relationship has lasted so far fink bwt how long a new realtionship would last if you loved the person more !?
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 you should go out with the person you like more if you like the other guy more than your current boyfriend then get to know him more and decide if you'll like to leave your boyfriend for him or not and dont worry too much about hurting your boyfriend's feelings you have to think about your happiness too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): You should go out with the guy you like the most - NOT because you don't want to hurt feelings. You'll hurt someones feelings more if they find out that you like someone else instead and that you're going out with them because of pity or guilt, etc.
You should think about it - but if you like this other guy then its not fair to keep going out with your curent bf.
If you break up with him tell him how bad you feel about him - but tell him as much of the truth as you can so that hopefully he'll understand and you can stay friends.
Good luck. Make the right decision - but only you know what that is. x x x
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reader, sk.khaos +, writes (31 January 2008):
you cant stay with a person,only because of the time youve been together.ive seen this alot, women dwelling on leaving a relationship,because of the time theyve been together.do what makes you happy.if your current bf makes you happy then stay with him,but if he doesnt,try out someone new.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 well you are both so young to have been in such a long relationship and you should both have some time to be by yourselves before committing to another person for so long. i know breaking up with someone is hard, but staying with your bf is unfair to both of you and he deserves to know the truth. break it to him gently, considering his feelings through this. you dont have to tell him that you have feelings for someone else. this will just hurt his confidence. explain to him that you just would like to be on your own for a while, and you feel that you would rather be friends with him, but you will need a little space for a while. he will be upset but you just have to be prepared for that. staying with him will only prolong the pain and things will end up going sour.
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