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writes:Hi.i got a small problem.MY friend is 56 and me 42.A while ago she was sending me messages that we were goin to be an item.i in stoke, she in glasgow.and so it went on until a sunday where she came out with deep feelings for me and was confused cos i am not her sort.so i went to visit, seperate bedrooms, didnt force anything.came home and now she has said that all we can ever be is friends.she wants this cos she can't cross over the line. yet the following weekend she wants to go out meet a man to get over her ex. miracle cure????I knew this all along.now call me dim, but the messages she was sending were what couples say. i turn her on, we both want the same and characters, we reflect each other.we chatted and she denied lots of things that she has said.she and ex split up after 10 years, 6 months on and i think that she is mixed up.SO now to date. apparently she was flirting with me, there was never goin to be a relationship.a huge gap has come between us.but there were lots of come on lines.i dont want to lose our friendship. any ideas please. thanks
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reader, Bonzaman  +, writes (31 January 2008):
She may have just wanted to have sex, have you condidered that? The flirting may have been for that, when you didn't 'rise' to the flirting, she distanced herself, she went and found someone who would have sex with her. Hey, it's just a guess but remember most women will want the men to make the first move, especially whe it comes to sex. I think that is so they don't feel slutty. Hopw that helps.
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