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writes:Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I like to know I am a sex Goddess, or feel that way. I feel so shallow. But it's true. I tied to look past this, but can't. When he calls me I don't answer, when he sees me, and trys to talk sexy. I get annoyed. Am I wrong? Should I give him another try even though he repulses me at this point. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
Alot of men dont make alot of noise do they hun, Its an old fashioned world still where the women are supposed to make all the noise and keep there eyes closed in the heat of passion. Em! No its not like that women are visual and hearing creatures as well, My fiance says Im more like a man I say Im a natural woman, Its the way we are percieved to be, But not in a good hot porn though, Hunny I no where your coming from give him a chance babes he may hotten up with your wild behaviour dont throw in the towel just yet love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, LethalInjection-x  +, writes (29 January 2008):
 I've found that quite a lot of guys I've met are like that, and a lot of women I know have mentioned it too.
My current boyfriend was the same actually.
You need to talk to him, ask him why he's quiet, find out whether he's trying not to make noise, maybe he feels a little embaressed by it, some people do.
Explain to him why you would like to hear him, tell him how confident it makes you feel, and what a turn on it is.
The fact he tries to "talk sexy" to you means he clearly wants you, it seems that he's just a little shy, and if it was your first time together sexually then it's understandable.
Repulse is a strong word though, are you sure it's just the fact he's quiet in bed that turns you off?
If it is, talk to him, give him another try.
If there's something else, tackle that or move on.
Good luck :)
xx
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