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*25eman
writes:I'm 24 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together and we have plans to get married. In the beginning it was rocky and I wasnt the best boyfriend. I cheated on her. But now I believe that I have changed for the better. I know that she doesnt trust me, but now I dont give her any reasons not to. It has been a year since i did wrong, but now I'm not happy with her anymore. I won't cheat on her again, I love her still, but I want to leave, but I feel like I can't? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): i don't know what u'r talking about... i'm confused myself...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): You have a daughter man... you can't leave her now just becuz you have a kid...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 It is not easy but you need to try harder to please her and love her and give her time to heal those hurts.
No matter how , you got to stick to her and never leave.
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reader, 325eman +, writes (29 January 2008):
325eman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe constantly argue about nothing and in the past she was the sweetest person and very passionet but now its not the same when she comes home its like hi and thats it in the past she was happy to see me but now its like whatever im home she doesnt have any emotions anymore i want the spicey sex life we had and the fun that we had with each other back
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (28 January 2008):
 A lot of people think about leaving when they are going through tough times in their relationship.
Concerning the fact that you cheated on her, it will take time for her to trust you again... and patience from you to give her a chance to do so again. You have to continuously do things to help her. You have to earn her trust again.
You say that you still love her, and I can tell that you don't REALLY want to leave, so I think you should "fight" for the goal to stay together.
And... don't ever make the mistake of cheating on her again. The grass is not greener on the other side. You have something "special" with her. Don't throw it away...
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 January 2008):
Why are you not happy with her? What are your reasons?
You love her, that is the strongest reason to stay.
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