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writes:I wrote in before about being in a gay relationship and wasn't sure if that lifestyle was for me. I have now ended the relationship and i am gutted....My ex g/f has been great, i've hurt her really badly but she understands my dilema about being with a man and having a family. She said i need to sort my head out but i just don't know how!! Part of me wants my old life back when i was straight, my head was never messed up until i experimented with women 4 years ago!! I don't know why i experimented, think it was to do with my new job, i work with alot of gay women. I do love my ex, she's the best person i've dated, she looked after me and i felt so comfortable with her!! Our sex life was good but then it faded after she moved in with me!! I suddenly got scared, i'm not totally out and i worry too much what people think and told others she was my lodger!! My friends keep telling me i'm not gay, i don't think i am, i don't know what to think!! Meeting a man would be nice but my heart is yearning for my ex g/f....What shall i do? I know my ex will take me back, just have to sort my head out...
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reader, hello1 +, writes (1 February 2008):
 And what's wrong with the donor way Flynn? Lots of dads don't even stick around to see thier children so the whole daddy issue dosen't really work :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): There is no such thing as two women having a child together. One woman will have the child from a donor. That donor will be the father.
The woman who gives the birth and whose egg the baby grows in will be the mother.
The other woman is merely a guardian at most.
And then what happens if that child finds out (and believe me once it figures out that two women cannot naturally concieve, it will) that it has a father out there... and it wants to leave and find them? Would you let them?
Flynn 24
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reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (31 January 2008):
I think that often we are conditionally gay,by that I mean we have a relationship with same gender,and we really enjoy like bodies and like minds,and sex after all is sex regardless of who we are sharing our bodies with. If You were Bi-Sexual you would know it sooner or later,and there would then be no question within your mind in having a dual sexual Preference. But keep on loving yourself,as that is the only way that you'll then be able to love others.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (31 January 2008):
I remember your last question. Its sad you actually went ahead and dumped your g/f, you're VERY lucky she's willing to take you back and forgive you. Alot of lesbians would have left you by now, due to the whole losing your partner to a guy thing. I'm bi myself and can sort of understand what your going through, I'm only 18 but want to be married in the end to a guy. BUT if you love someone, you love someone. There's not much you can do, you said she's the best partner you had! like I said before, you can have kids with this woman just not the 'normal' way. You could meet a man, get married. He could cheat on you, lie to you. You don't know what your getting but with this woman you do know.
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