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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I really feel the pressure of school and work, became too much for him and it was easiest for him to dump me. Should I tell him I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in April after dating for just over a year. He broke up with me but wanted to maintain a friendship. We have done the post-breakup sex thing but have also managed to spend some time together just hanging out and being ...

Want to dump this guy I've dated for a month-how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm going out with this boy who is a year younger than me and i dont love him anymore after a month of dating. I cant stop thinking about this other boy and he's giving me advice on how to act towards the boy i like not knowing it's him. Basically i ...

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I ...

He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her ...

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month ...

I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since ...

He is my best friend and I love him more than anything...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm not sure what to do.... So I have been seeing this guy for two years now... We dont have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship... We have everything you would have in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship except the title.... We had that kind of ...

I wanna get over him, but I don't know how to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I had my first boyfriend and I dumped him because his ex still liked him and people seemed to care too much about other people's trouble. It just got way too complicated so I ended it. Like a week after I dumped him I was told he wanted to get back...

How long should I wait for him to call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend always break up and makeup but this time he seems like hes serious. i want to wait it out to see if hell call and well get back to together but how long should i wait. hes the one that left me because he doesnt want to be in a ...

My gf is not putting out and doesn't know if she still loves me. Should I see where the interesting girl at work might lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Ok, so its me again, but this time with a whole new problem. Ok so ever since the last time i asked for help, me and my girlfriend have been doing fine. we've been dating for 16 months as of tomorrow. the other day she told me that she didnt know if ...

why is my ex still lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi i have written quite afew times about my now ex partner and how he has treated me.i.e first he had a "fling" wanted me out of our home; then decided we should make a go of it .. then a few months later, he decided he wanted me out again - so...

She said she needs her space and her friends say she will come back to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 4 months has jsut left me 5 days ago, she doesn't want a relationship becasue she's jumped out of a two year one and went with me. She says she still loves and cares about me but just doesn't want a relationship at all with...

I want us back together and back to normal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hi me and my girlfriend have recently split up, we was together for a year and a half and we are both young.I love her still and she loves me still but she doesnt like the fact that I look at other girls. I want our relationship to be back to normal ...

I love him but i'm not happy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - How do i break up with my boyfriend i love,but am not happy with?...

Is it true, 'what comes around goes around'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My partner left after seventeen years togther. She found a new boyfriend within a few days. She handled the breakup poorly telling me over the phone. I turned up at her workplace to she if we could sort things out but was only to find her new part...

I'm suffering today, i need help again please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hi guys. I'm doing rubbish today. (For those who don't know: It's just over a month since my 2 year, long distance relationship broke up. She says she was finding it too hard and doesn't want things to drag out, so she split with me 5 weeks before I ...

She wants time to herself.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

He does not want me back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My ex recently broke up with me, I think to explore other people, we would have been dating two years. Even though he's moved on after two weeks, I cant seem to. I still love him with all my heart, and want to go back out with him, even if there is ...

Do I leave my wife for another woman?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hello. I could do with a bit of advice.First of all ive been with my girlfriend for 10 years since we was kids im now 27. we have 2 children girl of 5 and boy of 1. i love my children very much.Im an electrical engineer and do ok for us.Now me an...

am i wasting my time????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hey ...i broke up with an ex a while ago(+/-2months)...and it really hurt..i didnt feel it was over ....but she claimed she needed time alone..oh well it killed me but i slowly started to get over the initial pain...but never stopped loving her... ...

Ex angry that I brought a male friend to a party

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Was it wrong of me to bring a new male friend to my friends birthday party when my ex was there? I didnt know that he was going to be there, none of our mutual friends said anything to me about him coming. I felt kinda bad for my ex, but me and this ...

Concerned about three-some!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i ...

Should I keep begging my ex to come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated to be more clear i merely sent a message saying hello how r u to a feamle on the internet i did this once b4 and she was mad but she ...

My girlfriend is pregnant with my baby, but I'm not in love with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - ok i'm 21, my girlfriends 7 months pregnant and i stay with her and her parents. one problem i'm not in love with her, i'm in love with my ex who is also in love with me. my girl is a great person i just don't think she's the one for the rest of my ...

What do you think? Is it time to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - It seems like my relationship with my boyfriend is reaching its breaking point. We fight over the smallest of things especially when he sees me being insecure, while if it is the other way around I've found I actually talk to him about it and make ...

How can I break up with my boyfriend for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I am a 19 year old sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend of 2 years since we finished high school, he is a year older than me. I love him so much, and that's why i cant let him go even though i know he's not who i want. He has a dead ...

Does her actions mean that it's over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - If you chat to girl that knows what you look like (pic only) changes because she knows you like her and got pissed that you flirted with her bt did not mind at first and the suddenly talks about new guy and only want to meet as friends. Does this ...

Do I leave my new gf to go back to the ex gf? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - I was engaged to a girl who i was with for 3 years who i loved very much about 6 months ago she decided to finish it and i was gutted. Since the time apart i tried to persuade her to give us another go but she said she was'nt ready and wanted to be ...

He wanted no contact but I went to him and we had sex! Now he's mad at me..he thinks I have some type of 'sexual hold' on him...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - bout 5 months ago my boyfriend of 3 and a half years split up with me - he felt he could not give me the support I wanted and deserved. I was devastated, I went into a complete emotional breakdown. Then all of a sudden another guy came into my life, ...

He wants to get back together but I don't! How do I get that across to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hi. I need some help in convincing my partner, (should be ex-partner by now) that our relationship is over. We were together just over 4 years and we split up last November. We decided to get back together early January but split again ...

I'm still in love with my ex and he feels the same.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - please help me! im still in love with ex boyfriend and the feeling is mutual.. our relationship is complicated because we constantly break up and get back together again. it seems like everyone is against us. wat do i do? please i need help...

Getting over someone who does not love you back.

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - hey guys i was wondering if u could give me any tips on dealing with or getting over loving someone who u know doesnt love u back, im finding it so hard...

Our religious differences came between us! But I cannot forget him..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - i was in a relationship witha guy who was not my religion. When we got together that did not seem to matter. Afer 2 months of us being together, he wanted us to go our seperate ways because in the long run, our parents wouldn't accept us being ...

I don't feel like I love him anymore, so should I leave this guy and try on my own with our little girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - hi in nov of 2004 my mom set me up with a guy she worked with we hit it off very well had lots of fun by feb 2005 i, oops, got pregnant. his job moved so we did i left my firends behind. my moms job moved too so she stayed with us which sucked. we ...

He said he does not want a relationship right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - i've been in a relationship for 2 years now and all of a sudden my boyfriend has been saying for the last couple of months that he doesnt want a relationship right now. we have been fighting over petty things alot and a day ago he broke up with me. ...

Will he want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Heyyy I broke up with my bf of 10 months, one month ago because he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore (wanted to spend more time with mates)although he did say he still loved me. The last month has been the hardest of my...

Should i keep begging?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated with a female on the internet i cheated once before and she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i ...

I don't know wether i should ask her out again or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - My ex broke up with me last september after 1 year of dating. we really did love each other, but after i came back from a holiday she said she couldnt trust me and broke up with me. i suspected that she was going out with another guy, which she ...

What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship? Last year I met a guy who rocked my world, in the sense that we had so much in common, had so much fun together, he was a sweetheart and seemed to share similar opinions and mor...

has he cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, After I broke up with my ex he had another gf the very next day! I was really mad, because people were saying he was cheating on me, he only asked me out b/c he felt sorry for me, and that he really liked her. So I got really mad, and...

He's moved on after 3 months of separation from me and said that if I wasn't so abusive he would have come back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Please help, i was with my ex for just over a year, we have been broken up 3months I have a 7month old baby by him, but the thing is he has moved on already with someone else, im heart broken has i still love him, i don't no how to handle him ...

She loves me because I'm Asian!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My Girlfriend of 3 years Just confessed That She Only Loved Me Because Of My Japanese and Chinese Background (She was drunk).. i fell so hurt I've Been with her Since i was 17 She took my virginty and i took hers...I havent been wtih anyone eles and ...

I love my girlfriend, but sometimes I have very serious doubts about us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Im 18 years old (female), and have been with my girlfriend on and off for 15 months. She cheated on me over xmas/january time, and after alot of agro i took her back. Her mum is a reformed jehovah's witness and contacting her is so hard as her m...

Should I give him a second chance after he cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I love this guy i been dateing for awhile.He cheated on me and i told him i didn't want to see him anymore.Well we did see eachother again just to talk and it was then he told me that he Loved me very much.Do you think i should give him a second ...

After a two year relationship, he's already moved on! How do I let this go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up almost 2 weeks ago, after a two year relationship. He's already over me, and has moved on with his life, while I seem to cant let it go. It's eating me on the inside, and I hurt so badly, I know I'm holding onto air, but ...

Should I try again for the sake of the baby??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 32 and have been with my boyfriend [he's 36] for 5 months. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. I have found out recently I am pregnant, it is my first child. I have always lived a very independant life but since meeting him, I have ...

My ex contacted me saying she had made a terrible mistake, thing is I still love her but can't hurt the new girl I'm with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I wrote in a while ago because my ex fiancee and myself split up, we was together for 3 years and I still very much loved her and I was advised to give her space because the split was her choice. In the time apart we still spoke to each other but I ...

He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn...

Could my ex have been right? Is she really going to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6354 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - My ex-girlfriend (whom I can't stand) and I got into a fight the other day (this isn't the first time this has happened) so I blocked her on AIM. A few days later she told my girlfriend about the fight and she said she was going to dump me. I ...

I did ask to see him this weekend but he never called me. I feel like my world is ending as all my friends have boyfriends and now I have no one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - hi I'm Katie, I'm 20 years old and was in a relationship for the past year and half, I loved my partner very much and I decided I would not carry on my career I have always wanted to do so I could make it work with him, as I would ha...