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writes:My girlfriend of 4 months has jsut left me 5 days ago, she doesn't want a relationship becasue she's jumped out of a two year one and went with me.She says she still loves and cares about me but just doesn't want a relationship at all with anyone.She wants time for herself, what should i do? i miss her so much everyday and can't help but to call or text her but it just makes her frustrated. I asked her if i was just a rebound and she got really mad that i thought that i forgot to add that before she said its honeslty cause she was involved for 2 an a half years counting me in the picture and wants time for herself and doesnt want to lose me as a friend for now should i just be friends and see what happens she wants to go to the boardwalk with me on thursday just us and when we hang out she always says she had fun an all of her friends told me not to worry she'll come back to me but i dont want to get my hopes up shes starting college soon as well is that which is another reason for the space i suppose so what do i do??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Drop her like she's hot. It could be worse. You could have lived with her for 20 years before she said that to you. Be thankfull & lose her number.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Ponungalungb is just right. Take it from someone who has also "been there, done that"...
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (31 July 2007):
 As hard as it may be, you need to do as she wishes. If it's space she wants, it's space she gets. Don't go to the boardwalk. Don't call her. Don't text her. Just move on . . . and the sooner you find someone else, the better.
Take it from someone who has 'been there, and done that'.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): Sometimes you have to follow whats true to you if you think somethings there then maybe there is you never know till you know this girl is odviously confused in what she wants if u have people that are her best friends telling you she'll come back its just gonna take time dont take it to heart and expect that but keep it in mind the world is full of possibilities till you know for a fact she doesnt want to be with you then you should just move on and with you keeping in your head you are just friends that should help with the hanging out and everything this girl seems as if she means alot to you and i hope the little advice i have is helpful take care.
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