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writes:i've been in a relationship for 2 years now and all of a sudden my boyfriend has been saying for the last couple of months that he doesnt want a relationship right now. we have been fighting over petty things alot and a day ago he broke up with me. i feel its unfair to just leave for no reason. should i go after him what do you think?
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reader, noor  +, writes (30 July 2007):
u know even if u go after him, hez gonna start ignoring you after few months...trust me....i had a same story, he broke up with me with no reason...and i was kinda after him...callin him and stuff...but after few days, he started ignoring me...he jsut responds when i say hi..im the one who says "hi" first....if u go after him, u will be waiting for his calls and mesages, but he wont do it...and that way, it will get hard for u to get over him....try to ignore him, move on...gudluck!!! and ya if he truly loves u then he ll come back for sure...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): I've had a simiilar break-up experience. I think if you truly care for him(as hard as it is) give him some time. If you go in immediately it could be too much for him.However you are only 18-21 so this is a real opportunity to do what you want to do, hang out with your friends, travel and meet new people. I would enjoy the freedom, you don't know when the perfect guy will come around the corner who is just amazing. I met mine at the cinema of all places. You went out with him for 2 years so in order to adjust I would say you should have "just me" time of a few months-be selfish. Go travelling with you friends and gain new experience. Have fun and don't worry!
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