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writes: Please help, i was with my ex for just over a year, we have been broken up 3months I have a 7month old baby by him, but the thing is he has moved on already with someone else, im heart broken has i still love him, i don't no how to handle him when i have to see him because off our baby, i keep calling and texting him, and being really abusive towards him, he said to me about 3-4wks ago if i didn't carrying on like that he would have come back. Even still after the fights and abuse from me he still wants me in his life, what does he mean?
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reader, paula-d +, writes (29 July 2007):
I totally no how you feel, i seperated 14 mnths ago from my 3 kids dad and he moved on very quickly to, i fell pregnant just before we seperated and the week after i had my daughter he told me that he had met someone else and didnt love me anymore my world crumbled and i couldn't handle it the best advice i can give you is to surround yourself with good friends and family and cut your contact with him. If you are allowing him to have access get someone else to be the middle man cause the less you see, or hear from him the easier it will be and it will give you a chance to move on to. Try to be strong and dont allow him back in to your life. Paula.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 July 2007):
Because of his child?I dont know. Surely he cant mean romantically if he is with someone else? If he does mean that, dont give it to him! Its not fair on you or your child.You need to make the effort for your child with him but only as parents.If he has moved on and wants to stay with this new girl, you are going to have to be grown up about it now.Its frustrating i know, but your childs future is paramount.C xxxxxxxx
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