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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

She ended it-now she's with an older guy who is married! How do I deal with all this heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year and 3 months and she recently broke up with me she said it might not be permanent she said she needs time to think and she does not have the same feelings anymore i have been upset all week and she ...

My ex bf treated his ex gf like a pricess, but not me! Why do guys not treat all their gf's the same...what was wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Do guys treat all of their girlfriends the same? See my ex didn’t treat me like the princess he claimed he treated his ex like. I keep thinking it must be something I was doing wrong and I guess I would get some reassurance if I knew he treated ...

He has a gf but wants to break up with her, to be with me...should I continue with him or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - There is this guy whom I would like to be with but he has a live-in girlfreind. He says he is done with her and wants her out. Do you see us being together or should I just give up on him....

Both past ex bf's contatced me recently--Why do you think they are doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6531 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Been out with two guys over the last two years one relationship lasted 6 months which was a year ago and the other lasted 3 months which was 5 months ago both ending because the guys only wanted something casual which isnt for me. This Chri...

Do you think absence will make her heart grow fonder... could we possibly have another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Ok I was a gay relationship for 2 years. We were so close and did everything today but she broke up with me a couple of days ago. Im heart broken she said she wants to go into 2007 single, she wont ever get back with me because Ive hurt her too much ...

She accused me of cheating and broke it all off! But I didn't do anything like that-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - im with this girl (been with for about 2 n a half months) who i love a lot and we were getting on fine, but just lately over xmas and new year she has suddenly seemed to 'go off' me, and yesterday she was accusing me of cheating on her and saying ...

Want to end it but worried aobut his reaction...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I want to leave my current BF alone but dont know how to do so! He is a very sensitive guy and he told me when his last GF called it quits he got depressed and even suicidal. We have been dating for eight months know and I don't see it going ...

How do I get over the post-dumping blues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - hiya i got a problem my gf now ex thought i was cheatting on her but i was not now that she dumped me i feel down, as iam not eating there food on the plate but i doint want it, and iam only drinking very little, and that i just sit in my room i get ...

I loved him and we broke up! Why won't he tell me why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for about a year. It was obvious to me and to everyone around me that he was deeply in love with me. I don't know what happenned, but one day he broke up with me using stupid excuses. He's abroad now and we're still in touch ...

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?...

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...

I saw him with his new gf today and I can't stop crying! How do I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids I'm in distress!! I thought I was over my ex-bf but today I saw him with another girl and I haven't been able to stop crying ever since. He seems so happy and was holding her like he never held me. I want him so badly, how do I make him...

Did he leave me because he thought life would be better without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do? My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me 8 months ago and as you can probably guess I've had a tough, very depressed time trying to get on with my life. I thought he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with but ...

My ex bf is dating my best friend and I still have strong feelings for him! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my ex bf is dating my best friend but i still have feelings for him. my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he liked my friend of almost 5yrs. at the time we were having problems but were still sexually involved. my friend knew i still loved him cos i told h...

We broke up but now he's messing with me--what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - okay my name is iesha i had a boyfriend for like a month we had sex then a couple of weeks we broke up so he be messing with me, toughing me on my butt? what should i do im in love wit this boy!...

His actions and words don't match up! Was he really my soul mate...or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with the man of my dreams for a year. I love him dearly, and he is my soul mate...and he said im his. However, over this year we've had a few ups and downs...he said we cant marry when he said we could, also said we should look for a ...

He ended their relationship! . Is he just running scared or is he really over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my friend and her boyfriend broke up. she still loves him. she called him and when he said he was over her he didnt sound convincing. i know he loved her by the way he talked about her when they went out. he said they were just going too fast so he ...

Xmas day with my long-distance b/f was perfect - presents, good fun and good sex... now he's left me for another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he works away.I never saw the distance as a problem because I love him dearly, looked forward to being with him and we both shared the travelling.He said he felt the same, but because of his current ...

He's much older and uglier than I am, and provides her with 'security'. How do I persuade her to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - hi. i recently confessed to this girl that i've feelings for her. she said shes confused, dazed and also seems like a dream to her. but the problem is she has a boyfriend already. but she says her boyfriend cannot connect emotionally with her, ...

We broke up and he still teels me I am sexy! He has a new gf and I don't like this. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I dumped my boyfriend 3-4 weeks ago and he just wants to be friends now but once he almost strangled one of my best, best friends (he claims it was an accident) and he has whispered to me that i am sexy in class. and he has a new girlfriend, What ...

We broke up 6 weeks ago but he can't afford to move out. We're in limbo and this is so hard on me. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 6 weeks ago because I couldnt cope with him having female friends. We stayed in the same house as neither of us could afford to move out. He has always said there is a possibility at some point we can get back together ...

Broke up 2 weeks ago because he wasn't looking for committment! I'm still in love with him though..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 weeks ago. we had a strange relationship because he worked abroard for long periods and was not looking like he was ready to show me any commitment. towards the end of the relationship he told me he ...

My fiancee and love of my life..just told me she cheated multiple times with her ex! Am I a fool to forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - about 5 years ago, i found the love of my life while in my freshman year of college and about a year ago i asked her to marry me. my fiancee and i have been inseperable and she is already become an important part of my family and vice versa. she is ...

We met online-I still really like him but think he just used me. How do I get his attention again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - For the past five weeks I have been seeing a guy I met through an internet dating site. Although he hinted at having sex early on I made him wait until a week ago. He has been ill for the past week or so and we haven't been able to see each other. ...

Doesn't bother me when other women chat up my man...is this a sign it's over for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - ok, here goes, with partner 6 years, engaged to be married, men suddenly taking interest in me, but since im getting the attention, it doesnt bother me anymore when girls chat up my man... is this a sign its over?...

Why am I still 'pinin' away for him after 9 months! Any advice to getting through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Ok, well ive broke up with my first boyfriend last march we were together for only 4 months but it was the best 4 months of my life. I havnt heard from him since july and everything reminds me of him i cant stop thinking about him and it hurts. I ...

After I split with my bf to date him-this new guy has gone cool and non-comittal! What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi I have a bit of an unusual problem-i was friendly with a guy at school when i was about 15 he was a few years older. We had lots of flirtations but nothing happened and we lost touch. then recently i heard from him via friends reunited. we talked ...

He had an affair so I threw him out... but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My husband had an affair and I threw him out. I was furious after reading texts and e-mails and packed his clothes and threw them out of the window, swearing at him. He has a good job and has moved into a flat in London. He calls occasionally to ...

I feel like I am neglecting my kids but it makes me sick to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - Because of a short term affair my wife had, we have been split up for about 6 months now.. I have been involved with someone who I care dearly about but I also have two children who mean more to me than anything.. I am not misserable when I am with ...

We were in love, we bought our first house... then she left! Can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - it's been a month now since my girlfriend left me and i really miss her and love her with all my heart. we brought our first house together last august things seemed to be going ok i mean we had our differences once in a while but who doesn't,...

He has hurt me and will continue but I still don't think I can walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - hiya this i lad i like has messed with my head and my heart but i still like him and im worried that when he next asks me out ill say yes and get hurt again how can i stop my self and forget about him? and why am i still attracted to some one who ...

When he dumped me he had changed..he was not the man I knew! What happened with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - A guy I had been seeing for a few months finished with me about 2 weeks ago and I really like him still even though I probably shouldn't. We had a really good connection and I also miss the physical contact. He sometimes had a problem in the ...

Why is he acting jealous if he doesnt want to be with me? Does he still care ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi, well i never thought that i was going be here writing you this. Im really desperate. The problem here is that i met a guy like 3 months ago, he was so into me, but i decided not to take things seriously because he was far away, he was so into ...

My first two husbands left me to be with other women... now I've hooked up with a married man - how do I give him up!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - I have been let down badly by 2 ex husbands who have both left to be with other women. i now find 6 years later i am involved with a married man who i adore and love dearly. i dont want to hurt anyone like i was hurt but cant let go. how can i ...

Not sure if we want the same things in this relationship. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - hi, im not in desperate need of help exactly, just reassurance, that the path im on is right. ive been with my bf for 5months, we were friends at college for the past 2yrs, then when i was drunk one night in summer he asked me out.i never exactly ...

My gf has dumped me 5 times and I bailed her out of debt! Now she's pregnant with my kid! I'm depressed-what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - I left my wife in january for my tenant. she has dumped me 5 times. she is pregnant with my child and I always treat her dughter like my own. I am constantly bailing her out of debt and she says were close friends yet sometimes she still gets close ...

He lies, he views porn---why is it that a woman stays in a bad relationship even when they know they shouldn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - I have a problem. i'm in love with a porn addict and a liar. his lying, scheming porn addiction has really takin a burdon on our relationship and on top of everything else i deal with and take from him i have to deal with that to and im not up for ...

He dumped me for one of my best friends! What can I do to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend recently broke up.. basically he dumped me for one of my best friends! I know that people don't believe that younger people fall in love.. they think its just some stupid phase that we're having and we'll get over it with ...

Do I stay with my current gf who I don't love or go to my soulmate who is finally divorced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - Hello, I have been living with a woman for 6 yrs now , whom , I love as a friend but thats it. She sleeps on the couch 90% of the time. We actually broke up last year for 2 months but I felt so sorry for her , because she was living in her mo...

My ex bf and I split one month ago-should I date his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - I split with my bf a month ago. His friend has always fancied me and has now ask me out. should i say yes?...

She used to want me back but now she doesn't. Problem is, now she has a bf andI want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

25 December 2006 (M) - I have been separated from my ex now for around 4 months! there was a time when she desperately wanted me back but i wasnt to sure! i am now desperatly trying to get her back but she has a boyfreind! we were together for two and a half years and i ...

Is it strange that my soon to be ex-husband and his mother are at my familie's Christmas dinner, without me? Am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - I have a question. My husband and I are seperated because he can't stop cheating on me. For Christmas we were together till lunchtime to share it together with the kids. My brother is having a huge Christmas dinner for our family this year and my ...

My ex bf is clingy and always tries to control my life! Any advice on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - my ex boyfreind is really clingy. He always wants me to hang out with him and if i go somwhere else he always has to know. I want to be his freind but i can't stand how he always tries to control my life. I don't wnat to hurt him but i don't know ...

My gf wnats to take the kids and leave. I love her..how do I save this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (M) - hi I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, we have had some problems in the past, so last night we got into a argument and she told me she wanted to end the relationship. We have 2 kids 1 her and 1 both. I really don't want to end the ...

We took break so he could find himself and now he's dating someone else! I am hurt -what should I do/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years recently decided he needed a hiatus from the relationship to "find himself." He says that he needs to experience living on his own and being without a girlfriend for a while because we've basically been together since we've ...

She said she'll forver love me but needs this split to find herself! Is there nay hope we'll get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (M) - After 6 years my GF decided to call it quits 3 days ago......Very hard during the holidays. We have talked tons every day since and tonite we got all our cards on the table. She has lost sight of who she is and what she wants. She needs to focus on ...

I broke up with him, but I think of him constantly. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - What do you think about this?????? OK here goes! THIS MIGHT BE A LONG ONE!!!! I need help trying to figure out what I should do?? I broke it off with my EX eight months ago after dating off and on for 4 years. I love him so much he even went to...

I used my ex bf as a rebound and now I feel bad I used him! How do I get out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - I dated this guy for 5 months.I decided that we werent right for eachother so we started to become friends But then I started dating this other guy who I cought cheating on me so I kicked him to the curb and I used my ex as a rebound.I know I ...

We split up and I'm going insane...I don't want to lose her! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

25 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I split about a week ago. It has been incredibly hard for me. We've been talking for the past two days and I cannot tell if she's just being nice or if she still likes me. We met this afternoon to exchange X-mas presents. It was ...

Got dumped and met a new bf but I still have strong feelings for the ex..will I ever get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - Basically i was dating this guy for 10 months and became so emotionally attached to him that he eventually got fed up of me and dumped me, i now am dating my new boyfriend and he is lovely but i still have feelings for my previous boyfriend who ...